how can i talk to the front reception girl at the bank for an extended period of time to build rapport? any suggestions on how to pick her up?

thanks

ok not feild tested.. but she did take and interest when i made a stupid transaction and came back and sed that i made a mistake.. she got annoyed... and i was too chicken shit to say anything back then.. after ward i thought of ways that could help.. i woulda sed ok i know it's stupid mistake but hey it was worth making it so i can meet u.. then go i know that was cheesy but hey atleast we broke the ice.. then throw in a light neg.. show her something non bank related (magic trick or w.e) then say there's alot more where that came from.. if the line is busy say ok lemme grab ur number cuz i don't want this next guy to start cursing at me.. get a number close and leave..
again not fully tested but theoretically it should work..

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i mean the front reception girl NOT the teller chick.

ohh... lol ok then i have no idea who ur talking about cuz the banks i go to u only talk to a teller
sorry..

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man reception girl's even easier than the teller i think.

i donno, im not an expert or whatnot, but this is wut i have in mind if i were in ur shoes.

i go up and start: "hey, do u know where blablabla"
then she'd show u the direction, then u ask her where can u find the manager 'cause u have this question about employment or just make up your excuse.

then near the end, say: "thx for helpin' me out. Just in case i get lost or not sure who to contact with, i'll have to get your number(or name card?)" i donno man, critique me people ! i need to be judged to grow ha ha

^^^But that wouldn't count as a real 'pick-up' since she thinks it's buisness related.

It's funny I've been thinking about the same thing all day today. I'm about to go to the bank where this one chick works. I think I'm gonna go with the direct approach and just say something like:

ME: "Hey, you are one cute bank teller."

*pause*

Her: (whatever she responds with)

ME: Hey, I know you can't really talk long while you're working, but maybe I could get your number and we could finish this conversation some other time.

Her: (jumps over the counter to start making out with me), lol.

This is my first attempt at day game, so we'll see how it goes. If she doesn't like it, then fuck it. I still have lots of AA that I need to overcome.

I think bank tellers might be hard to pick up cause they can see your finances when doing your deposit. LOL.

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I'm A HUGE PUSSY!!!

So, I just got back from the bank today. I was thinking about it and thinking about it non-stop (probably a bad idea), and I went to the bank that this chick works at (no I don't have one-itus, I just know that she's good practice, and if I do end up getting with her then it's even better!). I was just going to tell her that she looked cute and give her my number (practice, I didn't care if she would call or not).

As soon as I walked into the front door of the bank, my heart started racing, and I got really shaky and super nervous. So I'm standing in line, and there's 2 tellers there. I didn't have a choice which one I go to. It depended on how the line moved. I had this really strong feeling that I was going to end up going to HB (that was the plan).

So I'm looking at her, trying to tell myself that she's not that intimidating while I'm standing in line. Next thing you know, the other (not-hot) girl calls me over. I actually felt kinda relieved, but at the same time I felt like I completely bitched out.

I went outside afterwards and sat in my car. I was contemplating on walking back in there again, and making out like a $20 deposit slip or something just to get a chance to talk to her, but I bitched and left.

Newman its all good, we have all been there. Honestly, i have my best success when nothing is planned and you just go with the flow. Thats when the interaction between you and the female is more natural.

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Ya thinking too much about anything has always screwed me up in the past, so maybe it's a better idea if I just follow the 3s rule as my first sober, day-game approach. Day-game seems to be a huge obsticle for me right now. I'll get it though.

My perception on day game is that its easier than at the bars. At the bars you are expected to hit on women, when out in the day its more relaxed, a little less social but it alows you to show more personality during the day.

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Yeah, at bars I actually have a harder time... Day game appears much more natural and comfortable.

On that note, I'm off to the bank. =)

Lol, ya that's exactly why I find the bar scene easier, because it just seems more normal to hit on girls in bars. If you approach a girl in a bar, she won't be thinking "what the fuck is this guy doing?". She'll just know that I'm hitting on her, and she'll play along with my game.

Of course, rule #1 is "Don't give a shit what they think!" But day-game is just tricky. I just have to get past that first one, and I know I'll be cool.

How long did it take you to get past your first one anyway? I'm under the impression that you were just like me when you started out.

See, in bars though.. You have about 7 seconds to really entertain a woman. They are there to be entertained... weather it's by music, dancing, guys, etc... When youre at the bank or a store or something.. They are still women, they have their defenses up, but they arent thinking "Oh god, not again" to every guy they come in contact with...

How long did it take me to get past my first what? Approach? lol.. took me 2 years to seriously approach a woman.. and that was last night!!!!! (Still very wet behind the ears) and Im definitely not ashamed to admit that Im am a recovering afc... Or were you talking about getting past my first relationship when I had oneitis?? That took about 3 years... and like I said, I'm a free man now and can finally live my life the way I want... (Or atleast I hope so)

Im in the same place you are right now. I am just forcing myself to talk to and flirt with hb's everywhere. It doesn't matter the situation. I walked up to a girl at the book store the other day asking if she knew where books on how to write comedy were in the most stone faced look ever. She busted up laughing because i looked like i had no sense of humor but i kept the same frame and made sure everything i said was with a really dry tone. She laughed and said I was really funny.

I have found that i succeed when no expectations are being put on me. Im not a big fan of the bar scene but here lately it seems everything is clicking, i just have to get over this one-itus i have.

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