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Has anyone got experience with girls who stay and talk for a sec and then keep saying they have to go or even worse they just run off?
Let me explain, my first example is I was in a clothes shop and I saw a cutie with her friend shopping for shirts on the menswear floor. I approached her and said: Hey, can I get your opinion on something, she said yeah of course, and I said come follow me and asked her about her opinion on some hats and which color she would choose and what hat would suit me bla bla so she seemed cool with it. I asked her what she was doing there and she explained she's helping her friend find a shirt for her work and that men's shirts are better then women's. We laughed a bit and then she ran off to her friend (like mid convo), I said where are you goin and she said she needed to help her friend. 1) She might not have been interested 2) she's shy and she's running away 3) she has someone and doesn't want to bother. My question is: How would you deal with that situation? Would you go and meet her friend? Would you leave it (like I did)? Would you tell her to come back (needy)?
Example 2 - I saw two girls sitting down in the park, without hesitation I approached them, sat down and said Hi with a broad smile and started the conversation. I was really bubbly, I was throwing some negs at her cute friend, but even from the start they were looking at me like I was a creep. I was dress really well and I'm a good looking guy (not boasting, just saying I don't look like a creep and don't act like one) so I thought it would be cool to go and talk to them. Anyway, they didn't really fancy it, I said they were really shy and that they should open up a bit. I threw some really interesting questions to get help them but no, they were like poker face. I didn't really care so I said i'm not really here to pick you up I just like meeting people, decided to say hello. Bla bla, long story short I left without even trying to get their numbers because they were THAT BORING! I wouldn't even go out with a plank like that. So my question is: How would you have handled the situation?
What do you do to break the bitch defence, the indifference, the i'm not interested attitude, the I'm too high value attitude or the You're too boring attitude. I've done plenty of reading and sarging, I have experience with girls, I just struggle with this part. I know I can pierce through every defence, so I want to get this part figured out. Share your opinions. Cheers, Brainser
Being indirect is better than nothing, but at least show some intention and give them a reason to stay talk to you. Both of your examples share the same issue.
Lack of intent.
They only became when you knew you were toast after you felt intrusive rejected.
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