So I've been dating this girl for about 3 months. We live 2 hours apart. So we hadn't seen each other in two weeks and she said she would be in my city last weekend and she wanted to see me. I wanted to see her as well but I had a lot of work that I needed to get done before I had to leave the country that following Monday.

Despite telling her that I had a lot of work to do that weekend we still agreed to try and see each other on Saturday (she only gave me a heads up that she would be in my city the day before). I thought I could get all my work done before seeing her but couldn't so I sent her a text saying sorry but I might have to reschedule because of my work and that I still needed to get things done before leaving the country. She replied and said thanks for letting me know but don't worry about the reschedule.

I just got back to the country last night and she sent me a text saying she might have jumped the gun and sorry for her being snippy because she thought I was just flaking on her and that she should've given me the benefit of the doubt but that she understood that I had work to do and hoped that I had a safe flight back.

Here's the thing, I just started my own business two years ago and other girls in the past had issues with me doing my work so now I'm wondering if she's going to be like the others. Or cut her because she just reacted so quickly without believing me. Should I just next her?

How are you meeting these girls?

Seems like you need to meet someone that lives nearby that can actually be compatible...Or maybe you need to focus on your business and work on removing yourself from it... (Manager/Assistant to free you up)

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We are compatible. She's from my hometown. She's moving to my city soon (she used to live here).

I think he means compatible in the sense that they want the same kind of dating lifestyle that you want. That is seeing each other less than typical.

Yea it seems like we are so far. She told me she likes her space and doesn't like to be smothered. I know she's quite busy as well. Even with how we communicate it's the same. If we text she'll take hours to reply and vice versa and she's never had an issue with that. Plus, she's getting ready to go to school for her MBA next year so it seems like we're both busy.

She just thought I was flaking on her and that I was full it. If it I wasn't going out of the country for a business trip I would've had time but I had to get everything needed to get done before leaving.

This is where you need to pay attention. There's a lot more opportunities with woman than there is starting a successful business.

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If it's just this one time, my opinion is let it slide. Everyone gets cranky sometimes. Maybe she had a bad day, or was really looking forward to seeing you and got bummed. Girls react to emotion, not to logic, and the fact that you worked hard before leaving the country is something logical but not emotional. Big difference

Very true. Yea she did mention in her text that she was disappointed and thought I was just canceling on her. Plus I guess her apologizing speaks volumes about her character too huh?

Why not just wait and find out?

Are you guys in a committed relationship or just dating?

But besides that, women do require time. If you can't give that, just don't be the guy that runs back to the forum catching oneitis once she finds someone else to give her that. It happens all the time.

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