By a stranger you just met that night at bars and clubs.

How do you do it? What are your standard openers? What is your general rapport-building conversation?

How do you escalate while at the bar/club? How do you transition back to your place/her place/or a hotel?

What is the general pattern that you follow, kind sir?

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Why has nobody answered this? Is there nobody on here that can get laid 90% of the times that they go out?

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Have you searched the numerous threads (Google and youtube) on this question?

My question to you...

What is your CURRENT sticking point with women? And what are you doing about it and when?

To answer your question, In all honesty, I would say I would get laid 8/10 times I go out. Sometimes I get LMR and nothing happens.

I moved to Thailand recently. The Thai girls are all over you so it's hard not to pull. But I've gonna off them a little and I'm having a rough patch on tinder time wasters at the moment.

To sum it up

I find the girls that are looking for sex, I escalate fast and hard, once she is into me, I will lead her home.

Logistics are half the battle. I don't even meet women if my logistics are not handled

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My current sticking points: I don't talk very much. The only thing that gets me talking is alcohol, but I quit drinking for personal reasons. I don't want to spend my life as an alcoholic. I have trouble extending conversation past standard, boring interview questions (where are you from? what do you do?, etc.).

If logistics are the problem, then I have a huge issue because I just moved to a house that is a 25 minute drive from down town. No DTF girl is going to drive that far. The mood will probably be killed by the time she gets here.

But I really want to know what you talk to them about at the club/bar. You're probably the best guy on this site to answer this question. Do you even talk to them much at all? Is it just an opener (which is?), then immediate escalation, then back to your place? Do you delve into any deep topics at all? What is the conversation about? I realize that animals don't speak at all, etc... but you have to talk about SOMETHING.

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Logistics man, IMPORTANT. You might as well be talking to girls in other countries. Figure it out and make it happen, no excuses.

I lived with my father when I was deep into pick up. I started to get dates and I managed to get lucky with taking a girl back to my Dad's house. I figured if I was serious, I need to be next to where the action is. So I moved to the city centre and split the rent with a room mate. It was the best thing I did that got me the most results.
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I go to a dancefloor whilst being the best-dressed guy in there, ignore the girls and have fun. Girls will start to dance near me, I will ass bump them and look at them like 'Hey, get out of my way, i am dancing here' and then just take her hand and spin her around and escalate with her (My escalation is just disguised as dancing, I am not even a good dancer)

Often, my 1st interactions can be the girls that i take home, simply because I let them come towards me. If I see a hotty not giving me any attention, i will lift my nose up at her and get the eye contact from her. I will lift my drink up in a 'Cheers' suggestion and she will usually do the same. I will let her ponder about me and then I will purposely ass bump into like i mentioned above a few mins later.

Anyway

My face is cm's away from their face, I look deep into their eye's and they KNOW I am a sex worthy man, I am smelling her hair and whispering that she is sexy into her ears point black range, I kiss her neck and rub my knee on her pussy. I don't play games and show 'Disinterest' - I create like a love bubble where everyone outside the bubble is invisible. When I sense she is turned on, I will just take her hand and lead her out the door.

Then, i will handle the resistance as I lead her to my nearby home, I am doing basic small talk all the way home to the bedroom. I am not having stimulating deep conversations at all. Because for me, seduction is about being an animal and embracing instincts.

Seduction isn't telling her she reminds you of your adorable little sister and asking if her hair is real.

I do not bother with phone numbers

There are some instances where the girl is walking past you so often I just look at her rally sexually and get in her way. Kinda like Gandalf from Lord of the rings with my hands on my hips 'You shall not pass' and then just get into her face and ask her where they hell is she going but then escalate the whole time

Do don't do this in 7/11 at 13:00

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Do you ever form relationships with these girls after the one-night stand?

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Yes, I fuck em good and they usually text me back. Casual relationships. I don't do the monogamy stuff

Sometimes if they are in town for one night, then it has no option to be a ONS

I am currently living in a holiday destination so I am getting a lot of ONS's since they are in party mode.

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I don't think anyone who goes out every time gets laid, I think the answer to this IMO is that it depends and here is why. I have notice several variables, that either play to ones advantage or to ones disadvantage. 1.) "Environment/SPAM", when I was in college and not dating anyone, I could probably close 1 girl a weekend. I know its college and this what college is perceived as but I knew guys who could never pull it off in college. In this particular simple scenario I explained, it seems relatively easy to do, and it is, theres common ground, topics to talk about, college girls just want to go wild, as you can see totally plays to my advantage. Same variable different "Environment/SPAM", once i graduate college, sealing the deal became ALOT harder. Going out different places, different women much more difficult to pull off. It took me a few months out of college to actually pull it off again. 2.) "Who is your wing", Ive been out with friends who were great wings and Ive been out with wings who had no idea what to say to a girl, guess what, never got any action with the wings who couldn't keep a set going, a great wing is always clutch versus a bad wing who gets nervous and has no idea what to do. 3.) "Approach" how is one making a first approach, for me Ive found a routine/approach that works well for me, I strike up a conversation at the bar with the bartender for a good warmup, everyone in that who is paying any attention is saying to themselves "how does this guy know these bartenders and why are they laughing at him" I am indirectly making my presences known, and some girls, not all are intrigue by this. I look for key indicators, extended eye stares, flip of the hair, etc. Based on that brief observation I start with the one I am least attracted to and work my way up, it gets the more attractive girls wondering why I am not talking to them, then I make my approach. 4 "Critical Period" Me and my close wing, refer to this next point as the "Critical Period" Keeping the conversation interesting and being able to keep a conversation going will make or break. I usually start with a couple of friendly insults and then i pull my act. Keep in mind these girls are intoxicating and Keep in mind any story you tell is going to sound more interesting than it really is. My go to is the psychic act, based on some physical observations, I can get a rough idea on what kind of girl she is, (whose she's with, how old does she look, what is she drinking, is she wearing a ring, does she look thrown together or well put together, what time it is) then based on those observations i start playing the act. If the act goes well, I offer to on the dance floor, get real into, then after a couple dances, I ask if she wants to get a drink. If she says yes, then I head over ask her what she's drinking and get one for myself and 90 percent of the time I say"you want get out of here" I get one of the following to three responses, "Sure, but i have to go tell my friends Im leaving" if this is the response you get, I hope you made a good impression on her friends or will make a good impression" The next one I here is "I got to go to the bathroom I will be right back" If she does this, then you've been a victim of what i call "THE SIP-DIP" she sipped your drink and now she's dipping. The last response i get is "you want to go back to my place or yours" if this is the answer you here, your on way. I know it seems like a long response but again it depends. People who are closing almost every time, or those who are truly gifted or those who have a ton of experience. Closing a girl is not an easy task, hence why not everyone is getting laid evertime they go out. In my own personal experience I could probably close every 8-10 outtings it doesn't seem like a lot but i was going out 2 a week. I think of this way, rough numbers, 50 percent of the people who go out are women, of that 50%, 20% have bfs-or are married, 15% I'm not even attracted too, 10% may not even be attracted to or other various reasons, 5% are DTF. Its your job to find those women.