So I talked to this girl today about going out and getting approached by men. She told me every time she went to the toilet by herself at least 3 guys approached her and she actually threw in some examples of pua-lines and things I even find myself doing regularly.

At first I felt kinda discouraged, apparently it's just annoying and these men never tend to have success anyway. While furthering the conversation however she mentioned that sometimes she did actually like it, depending on who approached her (this can't be down all to looks, must be pua skill as well).

So my question to you fellas is then, how can you separate yourself from these try-hard men that have no skill at all? What do you do to make things fun and easy?

And a very basic question, as I'm a huge amateur when it comes to nightgame, what're some of your best lines you guys like to use when cold approaching (without eye-contact) and which ones after making eye-contact first? (note: I'm not a fan of fake situations etc ;p)

Look forward to hearing about your experience!

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The only reason girls separate from their group is to go to the bathroom, and they rarely do that alone. So approaching her on her way to take a piss is probably just going to annoy her as she desperately needs to piss.

When she says she sometimes likes it depending on who it is, you probably have to be really good looking to be one of those guys. I cant see it being because theyre good at pua because a good pua wouldnt approach in that manner. Approaching a girl on her way to the toilet is really afc/creepy stuff, but the more attractive you are the more mistakes you can get away with.

When a girl is on her own in a bar or club she is even more on her guard. Next time you see a girl separate from her group just watch, you'll see guys start circling pretty quickly, and she knows this. Plus, although she might be on her own at that moment, her friends arnt gonna be that far away, and as soon as they see her get approached, the big fat friend will move like she's never moved before to intercept. And in my experience the friend is never as polite as the girl, they will call you out. Of course you can then work your game to getting everyone on your side, but its way more of an uphill battle. If you approach the whole group your coming in at a much more neutral angle. And like Heywood Jablowme is saying, it shows more balls.

As for what to do and say in a cold approach? There are thousands of sources on this forum alone, let alone the whole internet, so just do some research. You'll start to understand the principals which you can use in your game. Be warned there's a lot of bad advice out there though, so it may take some trial and error.

I remember takling out the las girl I dated a couple of months ago....every time I went to the mens room the vulktures would pray on her, as regular as clockwork.

There's no need to tell fake stories or go into C vs U smiles routines or ask what you should name your new puppy.

In a night time situation, particularly a loud one, you want to be focused LESS on the actual content conversation than other stuff. I've learned that doing the following quickly increases your likelihood of success:

1. A confident, happy, higher energy approach - you should SMILE, be happy, and have a high energy approach. This doesn't mean that you should go crazy - just that she should be able to feel the warmth/energy from your approach. You should DEFINITELY be making eye contact and seem comfortable. The second you display weakness or show that you are uncomfortable is the second that SHE will feel uncomfortable. YOu should have a stronger frame and she will eventually begin adopting your frame

2. CALIBRATION - You should know within a couple seconds or two where the likely outcome is. You can do this by seeing if she returns your smile, how she moves, etc

3. FUCKING SEXUAL KINO - A lot of guys wait to establish kino. You should do it as quickly as possible (upon a positive or neutral response). Don't be afraid to start some sexual kino, particularly holding around the waist or touching the small of her back once you get the positive response

4. ESCALATE - Escalate kino and measure responses. If good, keep escalating TO A POINT. You should have an end game in mind - including isolation places, how you're getting home, etc.

5. Targets - There will be groups of women who will be especially responsive to you. Lone wolves (females) will be more likely to be responsive. Persons visiting from out of town will also be more responsive. Ironically, one of the most difficult groups to break into is the all female group - they will often be purposefully trying to cockblock you to "protect" their friend. Mixed groups are much better.

How to separate yourself -

1. Dress better

2. Look good (including haircuts, well shaved face, etc)

3. Decent build

4. Above all a CONFIDENT approach.

You don't approach them while they're at the toilet.

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That's bullshit. My best line is to bust open the door to the women's bathroom and say "hey, what's that coming out of your ass?"

It works every time.

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That's bullshit. My best line is to bust open the door to the women's bathroom and say "hey, what's that coming out of your ass?"

It works every time.

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