Hi, new here.

I went to a few bars and clubs downtown a couple weeks ago. I went to one club and I was dressed real nice. It was kind of slow. Most of the people there were girls that worked there.

I was standing by one of the bars and this guy came up to me and said "did you know every girl here is looking at you?"

After that, I felt pressured to say something. I usually can't think of anything to say. I went up to a group of four girls. Turns out some of them were strippers. We talked for a little bit, just about surface stuff (what they do, where they're from, etc.). Then, they got bored and went somewhere else.

I didn't stay too much longer after that.

I wish I knew more of what to say and how to lead the interaction towards something. I've been with enough girls to know that sex is not the end-all-be-all of life. But, at the same time, why am I out? And why are they out?

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You should be getting them to talk to you. The talker is more interested than the listener

Anyway, you should be escalating in clubs - Not talking lol. No wonder they disappear on you. Take an interested girl's hand and point to the dancefloor and turn her on. Don't ask her - her occupation at the drop of the music

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How do I get them to talk to me? In my experience, it would be extremely rare, even if a girl was interested, that she would initiate. It's up to the guy to initiate, and that's okay.

And, yes, you are right that I shouldn't be boring them to tears asking interview questions in a club.

I need to work on my dance game.

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You're on the pick up artist forum man.

Its not a question of a step by step forumla of what to say and what not to say. Its all about putting yourself into enough social situations that you learn to adapt to your environment. The fact that you approached on your own after a little motivation speaks for itself. You just have to continue to do so. Different things will be thrown at you at different times, but the more you get out there talking to random people, the better you'll get at it. There is a newbie challenge on the forum, but you can probably skip some of the earlier steps. That would be a good place for you to start.

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I need to just invite them back to my place for an orgy. Anything less will bore them to tears. Anything less is less fun than the club itself, let alone some stupid guy asking you interview questions.

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You need to be fun, interesting, and exciting, especially in a night time environment.

Have fun. Talk about commonalities (e.g. wearing the same colour shoes or shirt). Tease.

DON"T BE AFRAID TO ESCALATE if you get positive responses, and you should be initiating kino right out the gate.