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Ricardo999
PostPosted: Tue Jul 26, 2016 7:20 pm 
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How should I respond if I get this comment during day game?
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Yes.

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Don't do the cocky pua shit-test thing and say 'You're the 87th girl age approached in the last hour' it always fails.

I wouldn't be phased or react to it. I would just say 'Yeah, sometimes'

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" What different does it make? "

Turn it into a conversation and not a " yes, so what. " in your face kind of thing. Its something to talk about. Thats something men are searching for when they approach and swear they don't know what to say next. That question right there is giving you something to talk about. Turn her suspicions into conversations and you'll have a lot more success.

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All of the answers above fail to give value. I don't like that. They're fine, but not great.

How about something like:

Only the (cute/interesting/pretty) ones *wink*

Or something a little more nuanced that you can take in another direction like:

Only the ones I think I might like (follow up with qualifier)

Don't ever get stuck in a defensive position or frame.
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All of the answers above fail to give value. I don't like that. They're fine, but not great.

How about something like:

Only the (cute/interesting/pretty) ones *wink*

You're joking right?

I would think that buy now its common knowledge that a conveyance of value has a lot less to do with the words one chooses to respond with(the what) and a lot more to do with the confidence, frame, tone, etc. one chooses to respond with(the how). He can say the greatest "value conveying" canned response in the world, but if its done from a weak, insecure, non believing frame he will get a negative response. And in the same light he can use ANY of the openers listed above delivered from a strong, confident, value conveying frame and get a positive response.

Thats seduction 101.

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All of the answers above fail to give value. I don't like that. They're fine, but not great.

How about something like:

Only the (cute/interesting/pretty) ones *wink*

You're joking right?

I would think that buy now its common knowledge that a conveyance of value has a lot less to do with the words one chooses to respond with(the what) and a lot more to do with the confidence, frame, tone, etc. one chooses to respond with(the how). He can say the greatest "value conveying" canned response in the world, but if its done from a weak, insecure, non believing frame he will get a negative response. And in the same light he can use ANY of the openers listed above delivered from a strong, confident, value conveying frame and get a positive response.

Thats seduction 101.
Calm down Eddie, your ego is showing again. Just because he said he wasnt highly fond of your response doesnt mean you have to get bent out of shape. Ive noticed that pattern with you.

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All of the answers above fail to give value. I don't like that. They're fine, but not great.

How about something like:

Only the (cute/interesting/pretty) ones *wink*

You're joking right?

I would think that buy now its common knowledge that a conveyance of value has a lot less to do with the words one chooses to respond with(the what) and a lot more to do with the confidence, frame, tone, etc. one chooses to respond with(the how). He can say the greatest "value conveying" canned response in the world, but if its done from a weak, insecure, non believing frame he will get a negative response. And in the same light he can use ANY of the openers listed above delivered from a strong, confident, value conveying frame and get a positive response.

Thats seduction 101.
Calm down Eddie, your ego is showing again. Just because he said he wasnt highly fond of your response doesnt mean you have to get bent out of shape. Ive noticed that pattern with you.
It's all in how you read it bro.

Im pretty chill.

He didn't single me out, so theres no need to take offense or get bent out of shape. Thanks for reading though.

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There's a difference between conveying value and giving value.

And giving value is so much better than trying to convey it.
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Ok guys thanks for your help
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All of the answers above fail to give value. I don't like that. They're fine, but not great.

How about something like:

Only the (cute/interesting/pretty) ones *wink*

Or something a little more nuanced that you can take in another direction like:

Only the ones I think I might like (follow up with qualifier)

Don't ever get stuck in a defensive position or frame.
Great answer
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