Also, in regards to the guy who would prefer being in a relationship with a beautiful woman without a career as opposed to being in a relationship with a beautiful woman with a career, yeah, he might be insecure and he might have low self-esteem, but I can think of other cases where that wouldn't be the case. I actually dated one of these beautiful, ambitious girls for a few years and, while it was a challenging experience that made me grow, I'm tired as shit and I would rather have a relaxing relationship while I focus on challenging myself in other areas of life. I don't think I have low self-esteem. The ambitious and demanding aspect of the relationship also seemed to take away from the romantic authenticity of it all, IMO. Just my two cents.