I go to school in a really small campus maybe 4000 people, and I see the same people everyday. Should I be hesitant with approaching since I don't want to be known as a pua among other students? I'm only worried because my friend was labeled as a "womanizer" in high school and I do not want the same to happen to me.

Any opener suggestions for in class and out of class? What I usually do is during the first week of classes I walk into class and sit beside the hottest hb and tell her "you look smart I'm gonna cheat of you"

Ease your mind, talking to girls, and meeting new people is what uni is all about.

Just introduce yourself, to EVERYONE.

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Do you recommend that thing where you sit beside a new girl every class?

Have you ever had a GF?

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What happened to your friend that got labeled as a "womanizer"? Has life been hard for him because of it?

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I've had several, but they were just summer flings.

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1. 4000 students isn't a really small campus
2. Do not concentrate on hooking up with girls in class. This doesn't mean that you shouldn't talk or meet people in your class, just don't focus with hooking up as this can cause issues down the road.
3. There will be LOTS of parties during freshers week. Relax, and have fun, and party hard.
4. HOLD YOUR OWN PARTIES, organize your own events, your own gatherings, and get togethers. IN college/university, being popular/having social proof is everything
5. There is nothing wrong with being labelled as a womanizer, provided that you actually ARE a womanizer

What're some openers that you like to use?

The problem with holding a high social value is that during school I have no desire to party at all, I just get extremely focused in my classes and I usually shut down all offers to go out to study. Let alone throw my own parties lol. Are there any other ways that would allow me to increase my social value? I'm thinking that approaching a lot of people in my classes would really do the trick.

What has this line gotten you so far?

Any anytime you don't do something because of fear of whatever you won't have anything. Also if that apprehension is on your mind while you're approaching you will be giving off a vibe that is the very thing you're afraid of. Example: if you don't walk into the lunch room because you're afraid the bully is going to take your lunch money, what kind of vibe do you think you're going to give off when you finally walk into the lunch room and see the bully? One that would make him see you as a target.

So if you are going to approach you have to do so with complete confidence and without fear of or care for any judgement that may come your way. There is not gain without sacrifice and no success without risk of failure.

Back when I was in school I'd pretty much do whatever came to my head.. Everything from telling girls " Whats your next class? I'll walk with you" to passing them best out of three tic tac toe notes during class. Its all about having fun. Confidence is much more important that technicalities.

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That line honestly has always gotten me a # close every time. I think the way I say it is with a little sarcasm, so they know I'm joking. I only really use this line during the first week of classes because most of the time you're not really familiar with the ppl in your class so I felt that a joke that relates to the environment would ease her off.