I see.
I'll try this out today and see what happens.

It's soo weird too because I got her to qualify herself, then when we are walking to our next class and I try to get kino going, all of the sudden she's like freeze.

Need to build more attraction, sounds like the comfort is there though.

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~ Rye

Lol
So i kinda freezed her out today. She was like why are you mad at me, i go it's cause of what you said yesterday..and i guess she tried to tell me something but the teacher was talking and i was trying to listen.

Then like she asked for help on homework, and i was like i'm not there yet, but i guess you can probably figure it out since you are more mature..

I donno.
I'll just blow it over. Its not like i'm trying to get w/ her anyways, but I'm just trying to widen my social network.

Hey rye .......i just took a girl that i been hanging out with for 2 weeks to the mall and had a good time going to diffrent stores and i made it "fun" ..........we had a good time all the way till i got to her house........her sisters is going out with one of my friends and he was over thier house so i came up for a little bit......but at her house she was like ignoring me and being online for the whole time i was thier........she didnt even walk me out as she always does .........should i freeze out ? or should i bring this up to her ? or what should i do ?

I'd do a light freeze out. She may just have been shy or self conscious about being around other people and showing that she's interested. Guys do it with girls all the time and girls do it to guys too. If it happens again, then yeah, you have to bring it up, but don't make a big deal out of it.

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~ Rye

rye, thats what i was thinking too light freez out......she texted me a couple hours after i left her house with "sup" as she does most nights.........i did not reply but now that i didnt reply should i text her tommorow noon ? or wait untill she texts me back again....or what ?

Text her back tomorrow afternoon.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Hey how we all doing? So hopefully I am not stepping on any feet by adding some extra input.

Texting her tomorrow afternoon would work however if you are confident wait for her to text or call you this will drive a girl nuts and set the frame for your next meet but you must be sure as if you are wrong you could lose out for good.

ChowforNow,

the--------------------------------------->Saint

"Whether or not you agree with his harsh, straight to the point mentality, truth be told, he’s the most active/ dedicated / motivating member on this board. He’s routinely getting newbies and current members out sarging, pushing them into sets, given them suggestions and advice, replying to posts more often then anyone else. (Come out Wednesdays and you’ll see what I mean). Also, I have not once heard him making excuses about not going out and pussying out. If anyone else can show me this, I will automatically promote you to any status that you want on this board. (including admin).

Now .. I (and others) .. have tried a more sugar coated / feel good approach to getting guys to come out. Truth be told, it hasn’t worked anywhere close as well. I'm dissappointed that with all the free resources, and the cool guys that we have offering free advice, so few people actually make use of it, go out consistantly, and get better with women, instead of dabbling and keyboard jockeying."

"How did it start?Well, I dont know.I just feel the craving.I see the flesh and it smells fresh.And it's just there for the taking."

"Looking at my own reflection When suddenly it changes Violently it changes Oh no there is no turning back now You've woken up the demon in me"

"Only see, somehow it always seems that I'm learnin' or something I can never be It dosen't matter to me, 'cause I will always be that pimp I see
in all my fantasies I don't know your fucking name.So what?
Let's.fuck"

"Scrutinize every word, memorize every line
I spit it once, refuel, reenergize, and rewind
I give sight to the blind, mind sight through the mind

I'm going to try to keep this as short as i can.

Background:
I've been seening this nurse for 2/3 weeks, pulled her the first night i met her. fucked her 3/4 days later. since then things have started to escalate meaing that i can tell that she wants some kind of "serious"relationship (calls me every day, sends me romantic txts, bla bla bla) but I obviously dont want to - I just want to continue with the sex as its pretty damn good =P

Question:
My options are to either start multiple LTR - or the honesty option and tell her what I really want. What do you think is my best option. Considering the pros and cons of both options. whats your advice?!

Thanks

Hoafoeth

hey rye , so i found out from my friend whos going out with her sister that she told him that the girl im seeing is attracted to guys who are jerks and dont give a fuck about anything (i wonder y she told me she "couldnt find a bf" lol ) anyway im the total opposite of that but i AM a real fun guy and she seems to feel the same way , we laff joke (through me negging her) and kidd around alot and she shows interest.........but i cant tell if she is interest or just wants a friend ?

another question is how should i treat a girl like this (that likes jerk type guys) ? more negging ? or what , i would say at this point im in comfort building with her but i dont wanna be in the friends zone! she texts me everyday since we started haning out with "hey whats up ? " twice a day usualy at noon and at night ? what does that mean and what should i treat her ?

If you're interested in keeping her as an MLTR, then let her know that you like seeing her and you're going to continue seeing her, but that you aren't ready to settle down with one person at this point in your life. She'll either accept it, or not.

If you just want the sex, then let her know that you enjoy seeing her, but that you're not really looking for a relationship at this point in your life, for whatever reason you don't want a relationship. Make sure you let her know it's because you are happy the way things are and don't want to change them right now.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

If you act like you're expecting her to put you in the friend zone, then that's right where you'll end up. Who cares where she thinks you're going right now, you have the ability to change that, just by going for what it is you want, which is to close her. Have the confidence in that goal.

Who cares what type she likes? Be you, be fun, be attractive and she'll see that you're a good guy to be with.

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~ Rye

Can you give me some advice on gettin a girl into the comfort zone, i find that asai give an opener it gets all tense??

Perhaps you're being too serious? When I open a set, I'm all smiles and if I can, I want to be laughing, showing them that I'm having a good time, so they do the same.

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~ Rye

Hi Im calling myself Stallian. I am really excited about learning to becoming a PUA. Im 18 and go to a Junior college. I just wanted the advice of an experienced PUA on where to start. Like what are some good openers for college game. And just any other quick advice you can give a new comer.