That sounds like a lot of effort to put in for someone you just met and you are just newly trying to explore. That would be very heartbreaking if they experienced that sort of trauma. If a girl had trouble with anxiety preventing her from being intimate and I could not gain her trust enough that she could relax and let me help her, then hopefully she could find help from a professional. I would hope that they just wouldn't give up on men and there are plenty of trustworthy guys out there, sometimes you need to give love a chance even when you have been hurt in the past. However I am afraid that is a big burden to put on someone who barely knows you. That inability to give it a chance is somewhat off putting, even if the situation is placed before you honestly. I am sure there are guys that would be interested in working through that but I doubt most guys on this board would have that type of patience.

You can't say that being a challenge is your most successful seduction when you've only had sex with two guys. Wait...did you have sex with the guy who was your most successful seduction?

Well, I'd hope there would be. Life's too short not to give it a try.

That's a choice I've made. I value to whom I give my body to. For some dude's it's getting a girl's number. For other's it's getting a lay.

And, yeah.

I don't think that's lowering your standards. I think that's being patient and giving the guy a chance.

I get it's your choice and I'm not criticizing it. By all means do what you need to do. Just don't talk like an expert at seduction when your seductive successes are the grand total of two.

That's exactly what settling means. If a confident, attractive, fun, sexually aware, and emotionally compatible guy comes around, that weak-minded nice guy you're dating would be tossed aside like used toilet paper. Don't kid yourself.

That's exactly what settling means. If a confident, attractive, fun, sexually aware, and emotionally compatible guy comes around, that weak-minded nice guy you're dating would be tossed aside like used toilet paper. Don't kid yourself.

Is that what women say about your wee-wee too? Awww.

I don't correlate my seductive successes with sexual partners. I correlate it with how often I get asked out, and by the quality of men.
If guy's chasing around a chick for 2-3 months trying to get her on a date, that's not considered she's seduced him? Dude asks her to be his girlfriend, also a no? Does all seduction end between the sheets?

Dudes on here trying to get chicks' numbers and you giving them a pat on the ass, that's definitely successful seduction. Don't discourage the good nice boys on here, lol.

Uh, that depends really. In most cases, yes. But I've seen beautiful women with average Joes because they didn't want other chicks looking.

Oh, and just an FYI, we ALL settle sooner or later. There's always going to be a bigger and better dude out there.

This thread's been to the moon and back. Talk about seduction now.

When I find the right girl who meets my standards, I might settle down with her. I would never lower my standards just to have a GF -- when either party does that, it's mere neediness and desperation.

Settling down with someone who exceeds your standards... this all should be common sense.

IDK, It's hard to understand them while it's in their mouth. Is that like a female default comeback? A dick joke?

You say you've only 'given it up', for two men. Does that equal the number of dicks you've sucked?

Just an equal to-more than-or less than is fine. Just wondering. Oh and please rate your performance.