| Go to a club alone somewhere you won't see anyone you know. Stop worrying about being cool. Just let go of all the social standards, find who you are, what's your style.
Have fun, be able to enjoy yourself first, that way you can give a woman, that's of high value enjoyment. Look's are great, I use to be the same way when I was younger, always using my looks to my advantage, I hit roadblocks quick, relying on looks only gets you so far.
Improve on the things you can, the obvious one is dancing. Who cares if you can't now, just go dance and have fun with it, your dripped in fucking designer bro, you could do the stinky leg, with a side of the chicken leg, and it would be fuckin gold, no matter what you do.
Start believing in yourself, not '' these things'' . This comes from acquiring, and growing your skill set. taking the actions getting better and seeing the results from getting better will give you more confidence, because you know what your capable of, and what's possible.
Here's a little beginner action plan you can utilize.
1. Get your body language right, mannerisms, etc. Stand up straight, walk confidently, use eye contact, walk like a man, this is the easiest, thing you can do and get instant results. I've gotten girls in the loudest ear bleeding clubs without saying one word. All mannerisms and body language. Point you, put out my hand, she puts hers in mine, I lead her to the dance floor, we dance sensually, real close, we start kissing making out, I lead her outside the club, we finally talk, and go back to her place.
It's how you carry yourself, not how your things carry you.
I'll be in the mall with all my non pua friends, and trip them the fuck out because, ill all of a sudden start acting like im deaf and speaking sign language( i do know it) to a hot girl, and start making out with her in the middle of the mall, then after-words when we get done making out finally, talk laugh and say I was just fucking with you.
Your body language says a thousand things, words don't express. women are very receptive to this.
2. You need to build a personality, this is what will help you with woman that don't know you from, a fake Louis Vuitton bag stitched up in a sweat shop in china, with the L leaning like a cholo, compared to the real thing.
Unlike the girls you've grown up with, pooping in your diapers together, and sleeping on mats together for nappy time in kindergarten. Girls that know you from a comfortable social circle and place, like schools, your neighborhood you grew up in etc.
You need to be able to show a personality to women that have no idea who you are, you need to be able to show your qualities and value to women, in a short amount of time.
This is where having a personality comes in find it, have good conversation, stick in there and be able to talk that mouth piece, get that gift of gab, talk talk talk, then stick in there talk some more then when there's nothing left to say, starting busting out that stinky leg, with a side of the chicken, and we'll call you gucci chicken burrrrrrr.
3. Whip your dick out, seriously at some point you just have to whip your fucking dick out.
'' Mic Drops'' '' Peace Im Out''
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