no kim jong il is lonely. that guy doesnt look lonely.

yes.

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oh well in that case it goes to show that the only thing women look for in a man is power.

(or maybe its the really cool jump suits he always wears... hmmmm. note to self...)

Overshare is an understatement

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Dear Zip,

I have been following the thread since it began and it has helped me and many others like myself! Now if we happen to reach the 50th page mark and you do happen to trow a party, then i wish the best for everyone! May god be with you all party animals As you know i wont be able to make it since it will probebly be held in NYC, but i hope you got your leader pants on because its gonna be crazy with all those packs running around hungry looking for some answers So i wish you good luck!

Anyways back to topic here darling!

There is this HB that gave me her number a month or so ago and we talked a couple times here and there but after that she doesnt seem to answer me back! Now i did wait 2 days to contact her! First time around i text her making so conversation! Then i waited a couple days and since the weekend was coming by and i was helping my freind promoe this one club, I called her and she picked up but for some reason she couldnt hear me! So make a long story short, we talked and i told her to come along but she alread had plans as a matter a fact she was already going out we i called!!

Like i said, she hasnt hanswered me for a few weeks now! I havent called her! Just texted or left a message online for her to read! The funny thing is she was like lets hang out and stuff so i went for it and i got her number!

Now i havent called or text her for a good 2 weeks! Could it be that she might be talking to another guy and its going good so she doesnt want to add another option? i have noticed this! When girls talk to other guys that the know well, they seem to not talk to other guys the way they used to( like flirting and such)....

So I am thinking of being straight out with her! Like how she gave me her number and said lets hang out but now she doesnt even anwer!
what do you think? Should i call her and test the waters? Or you have a better idea?


THANKS A BUNCH ZIPO YOUR A SAVEOR!!

oops i think i just trew up a little in my mouth!! Or like the great Crag mire from family guy would say "Oops I just pooped alittle"!!

Dear Zip:

In David Shade's book: The Secrets of Female Sexuality,

He claims to be able to make a woman come on demand- using some sort of verbal command. Furthermore, he claims he can do this over the phone, when she is 'cold.'

Do you buy this? I'll admit, I'm not an expert on female anatomy, but wouldn't you suppose there are certain physiological and biochemical events that necessarily precede an orgasm?

I only speak from experience. As far as sex goes, I normally shut the hell up and let others do the talking. You might want to ask Par for her opinion... because she's an excellent resource.

From my own experience, I know, for a fact, that orgasms (at least, for women) are mentally fueled. I've had an orgasm from watching a movie. No touching involved.

As far as his claim... who knows. I know that mentally, if a woman is turned on, physiological things happen on their own (i.e. she "warms up" down there.) This is scientifically proven. As far as the orgasm goes... I personally believe it is possible from my own experience.

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David Shade made it sound as if some woman named Josephine is minding her own business: shopping for shoes, watching The View, or rotating her tires (otherwise non-sexual activities... for most people, anyway). Her cell phone rings. The voice on the other end of the line says "Oklahoma." Josephine immediately drops her crescent wrench (or not) and instantly bursts into orgasm...

I have no doubts a woman can climax purely from mental stimulation.. However, there is still that word- stimulation. Of course, there is the possibility that the word "Oklahoma," itself, makes her hot from some unknown reason... If that's the case, from now on, my new opener is going to be:

"So, ever been to OKLAHOMA?"

Sure, I'll get strange looks from most, but eventually I'll run my opener on an unsuspecting Josephine, and she'll erupt in ecstasy. An orgasm in response to my opener... that's a positive IOI, no?

Talk about anchoring yourself into her mind . . .

I'm taking nothing away from Shade; he's a decent writer and I enjoyed his work. However, I would have preferred a little more practical application and a lot less braggadocio. I mean, Kanye West thinks this guy's arrogant. He used the majority of the book to qualify himself as the premier man for satisfying women. He pioneered phone and then text sex. Before that, he made women come via telegram.

I read the book. Now, am I missing something? Is there a special de-coder ring I have to buy from his website in order to de-crypt a message on the inside back cover?


Hey, I think it's fantastic that Mr. Shade can bring a woman to climax from a verbal command delivered via Morse code. But it doesn't help his readers any when he keeps his methods completely secret.

Question for Zip,

I noticed a lot from this one girl, that when I mentioned another girl she crosses her arm. I am not giving her the impression that I have interests with other girls, only mentioning them in my stories.

Do you think this is a subconscious thing? Or does it shows she likes me and is somewhat jealous? Do you do this Zip when a man mentioned another woman in his story?

I am not sure if she is into me or not...I can't tell anymore. Another question, I haven't been kino her for the last 4 times we've seen each other and all of a suddent kino the 5th time I see her? Because I've been lacking the kino department. How do I start at this late in stage?

Thanks Zip,
LB

I'm a huge David Shade fan, and I would say it is without a doubt possible. Research has shown that women have orgasms in their dreams which proves that female sexuality is 100% mental. (or can be) With this, you can gather that a person could have a orgasm if they were in the correct mental state. He mentions that it is something that you could not mention up front what you were going to do because most women wouldn't believe they could obtain an orgasm through the phone without touching themselves.

Also, you want the key or secrets to how he does a lot of his techniques? If you have read his work, you would know he uses NLP and other types of hypnosis on his women.

That's a cue that your talking about the other girl puts her into a defensive state. She's into you and is jealous. I catch myself doing the same thing if a guy I'm into talks about a girl who could be possible competition. It's subconsciously crossing my chest, which is protecting vital organs. Also, it's covering my heart, placing myself into a "stronger" position.

As far as kino.... just start doing it, but start on extremities and work your way in... like you would normally escalate kino. You'll get to the touching compliance eventually, where you can tell if she's attracted, but start out simple.

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We've already had this argument on the forum about women's sexuality. Not doing it again.

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