ok im in high school
and im trying to pick up this girl at my school

The problem is....
1. i don't know any of her friends
2. She isn't in any of my classes
3. I never see her on my way to other classes
4. Im never at lunch period, cuz i get out early...sooo basically i never see her

Good news is.....
1. I know of 1 of the classes shes in
2. My friend is in that class
3. I had a prettty ok 1on1 conversation with her last week(just in the right place at the right time..but that opportunity will probably never come again, and i didn't get her number or a date...because i didn't ask(i got nervous just talking to her)


i like this girl a lot and i don't wanna lose this like i have with other girls
can someone please help me?....

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if you never get to see her, it would be hard to approach her. try running into her elsewhere, find where she works.

B-Sweet

Or, find some reason to stop by your friend's class before it starts, or after it's over. Then, talk with her. If your friend is good, he will wing for you, or set up a "chance" encounter.

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if you never get to see her, it would be hard to approach her. try running into her elsewhere, find where she works.

B-Sweet
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i agree with B-Sweet..i would suggest u do the close encounter again n again..drop by say hello to your fren a few times when she is around them..stay a while longer..make her notice u as someone not jus another dude ..
den the approach comes

u said to ur frenwhile looking at her for a brief moment "do i have to depend on u to get her number or do i have to get it myself" turns to her n show ur mobile..she be in a state where she cant refuse..dun give her a choice to think..works for me..

i notoce ur in school..thats a great place to start like stifler said in road trip "u get laid, get drunk and get educated at the same time" [/u]

haha..alright thankz guys i'll try some of those tips...

but another quick question...

im goin to be going to lunch tommorow, some stupid schedule at my school, so i was wondering....

if i see her in a group...how should i approach her???

what would be a good opening for this situation?

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approach her friends not her, specifically the males in the group. impress them and you'll impress her. dont forget to neg her, when you shake her hand, tell her she has dry/wet hands or when she talks to you, wipe your face as if she spit. Oh yeah, Dude its high school. put a note in her locker, tell her a place to meet. starbucks at 5pm, then be there, approach her there as she waits for the person who wrote the letter. then the next day, leave her a note (as she is thinking she was stood up) telling her you enjoyed your java mocachino. that will throw her off guard.


B-Sweet

i think highschool kids still have the time to keep it natural.
i love all of the above suggestions,
but i think this would be an easier approach without considering or rehearsing.

if u gonna see her in a group, n her frds r also there, just go straight to her say: "hey, i still rmb u from last time, i rmb u said blablabla" and see how it goes, then ask her what she's doing there, and tell her why u're there cuz of the school stuff or wutnot. then chat w/ ur frd a bit since he's in her class. Then when u're about to leave, just say to her: "hey, i gotta bounce now, but i've gotta get ur number so we can continue this ; )"

my wordings mite be confusing haha, experts out there, tell me how u think abt my idea for this highschool boy! critique me, so i can learn as well.

another quick question that i need answered about this situation...

would it be a wise decision to ask my friend to put in a word about or for me??

if soo, what should he say???

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Flamboyant u are rite .. high school kids are the best, i remember picking gals like picking weed off the side walk..they turn natural easily n keeps the cycle in place more naturals produce even more AFC will be produce.

ok back to the tips.
U dun need ur fren to give u a good words for u unless he agree to be ur wingman..cos why would he be putting good words when he can use it for himself..my exprience in high school dating, friends can do more damage than help. its already good enough he has brought proximity to her..

B-sweet game is good. i think gals into fairy tales thingy..so give her the illusion of a secret admirer..not too much or else when she found its not prince charming then u will be the shrek..

ok again to B-sweet game .. do it few time.. cos it will soon be known to her friend that she clearly has an admirer..then that will be ur approach..like "Rumour has it u had a secret admirer..?" if she look awe den show some DHV "i can help u find out who he is"

try it makes ur game fun..

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"my exprience in high school dating, friends can do more damage than help"

this is so true hugo haha.
the best game is, u keep it all to urself, don share anything w/ ur frds or whatnot. cuz u never know which one's got the big mouth~

Hey how we all doing?

Here we go first off this finding out where she works other classes this is not pua its borderline psychotic or stalker.

You have only talked to this girl once and your all about her give me a break. This is so unrealistic like it was not even a 8 hour conversation.

Finally,

If you really want to meet talk with her this bad there is one final option but you better run A-game after this......

"PUA is the inspiration of passion, when she is with you she can breathe live and feel and this is because of your energy, charisma and you in essence">>The Saint

With that being said to inspire passion sometimes irrational actions speed the process up as "love is unpredictable" so the next day she is in this class go down to the office and get the secretary to call her down as your her brother. Before she starts walk in you walk out and take control I mean A-game.

Claw and I called you down

"Hey I got you called down

And even if this fails all the other girls in your high school will think your a romantic.

ChowforNow,

the--------------------------------------->Saint

"Whether or not you agree with his harsh, straight to the point mentality, truth be told, he’s the most active/ dedicated / motivating member on this board. He’s routinely getting newbies and current members out sarging, pushing them into sets, given them suggestions and advice, replying to posts more often then anyone else. (Come out Wednesdays and you’ll see what I mean). Also, I have not once heard him making excuses about not going out and pussying out. If anyone else can show me this, I will automatically promote you to any status that you want on this board. (including admin).

Now .. I (and others) .. have tried a more sugar coated / feel good approach to getting guys to come out. Truth be told, it hasn’t worked anywhere close as well. I'm dissappointed that with all the free resources, and the cool guys that we have offering free advice, so few people actually make use of it, go out consistantly, and get better with women, instead of dabbling and keyboard jockeying."

"How did it start?Well, I dont know.I just feel the craving.I see the flesh and it smells fresh.And it's just there for the taking."

"Looking at my own reflection When suddenly it changes Violently it changes Oh no there is no turning back now You've woken up the demon in me"

"Only see, somehow it always seems that I'm learnin' or something I can never be It dosen't matter to me, 'cause I will always be that pimp I see
in all my fantasies I don't know your fucking name.So what?
Let's.fuck"

"Scrutinize every word, memorize every line
I spit it once, refuel, reenergize, and rewind
I give sight to the blind, mind sight through the mind

1. i've been diggin her since last year, now that i found PUA...ive finally built my confidence reading through this forum.

2. Calling her down to the office, might be a good idea....EXCEPT!..i have class as well, how am i gonna pull that off?

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Hey how we all doing?

Let your teacher know that you have to leave class half an hour early doctor's dentist personal you decide and this way the girl will not have a hug reason to leave you as its only the last half an hour of class. Make it work.

SOmetimes to obtain what you want you need to sacrifice.

ChowforNow,

the--------------------------------------->Saint

"Whether or not you agree with his harsh, straight to the point mentality, truth be told, he’s the most active/ dedicated / motivating member on this board. He’s routinely getting newbies and current members out sarging, pushing them into sets, given them suggestions and advice, replying to posts more often then anyone else. (Come out Wednesdays and you’ll see what I mean). Also, I have not once heard him making excuses about not going out and pussying out. If anyone else can show me this, I will automatically promote you to any status that you want on this board. (including admin).

Now .. I (and others) .. have tried a more sugar coated / feel good approach to getting guys to come out. Truth be told, it hasn’t worked anywhere close as well. I'm dissappointed that with all the free resources, and the cool guys that we have offering free advice, so few people actually make use of it, go out consistantly, and get better with women, instead of dabbling and keyboard jockeying."

"How did it start?Well, I dont know.I just feel the craving.I see the flesh and it smells fresh.And it's just there for the taking."

"Looking at my own reflection When suddenly it changes Violently it changes Oh no there is no turning back now You've woken up the demon in me"

"Only see, somehow it always seems that I'm learnin' or something I can never be It dosen't matter to me, 'cause I will always be that pimp I see
in all my fantasies I don't know your fucking name.So what?
Let's.fuck"

"Scrutinize every word, memorize every line
I spit it once, refuel, reenergize, and rewind
I give sight to the blind, mind sight through the mind

tried it today...didn't work cause i nneed an id to prove im her brother..

soo i need another approach idea!

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any other ideas??

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