I'm so damn confused! She's been iniating a lot the last couple of days, but the conversation just doesn't go anywhere.

Why don't you just see if she's DTF? If she is, do that. If she's not do something else besides cry about it.

I bet all those girls that ignored you in high school would still be pretty pleased with that decision.

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Yet again, you've been given the perfect answer, but you won't listen to it. 7 fucking pages.

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Some people will keep asking until they get the answer they want.

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Not joking but this girl Messages me every day almost, do girls just like to waste their time chatting? I certainly don't.

I'm confused...I'm assuming you've asked her on a date as this is like the first thing you learn...

If she said yes: Go on this date, plan it properly so you don't need to talk to her before it.

If she says no: Tell her to call you if she changes her mind and stop talking until she reaches out.

7 pages of common sense

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I didn't ask her on a date, from watching Corey Wayne's videos who I follow he said if a girl has dumped you in the past they must do 100% of the calling, texting and pursuing otherwise you just look weak.

So this girl has to ask me out from what I understand.

She will just message random stuff like on Friday night she stayed in and said she had just been to the gym and was watching a movie at hers.

I've made some progress because she is inaiting the messages more now. Hopefully that means her interest has gone up.

How has this worked for you in the nearly 3 months since you've created this post? Just imagine where you'd be today if you said that you could join her watching a movie.

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Or if he just opened other women, ones who he is attracted to and are responsive to his advances...

Oh so many potential lost opportunities over a single fish not worth pursuing.

He hasn't dated her for a year yet.

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All of this could be circumvented, this several page thread of crap with:

"Hey you, you've been on my mind lately. Let's go grab a drink this weekend let me know what time works for you"

Stick your neck out, set the frame. If she's not responsive or brushes you off then at least you know, you've polarized her. Rather you're so scared to ruffle some feathers like she'll run off but the reality is bold moves are generally best, and MASCULINE. Right now you're so far into your feminine, energy all over the place, no direction - not attractive to women in their feminine.

This the part that he keeps getting told to do but absolutely refuses. He needs to quit making posts until he says "I tried to kiss her and this happened..." We are at the point with this guy when we were helping him when she was willing to go out with him almost a dozen times. Now he's gone so far backwards that he wants to know how to game her through facebook. This is actually funny in a tragic way.

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No self-confidence. Scarcity mindset. Mental masterbation. Feels ashamed of his own sexuality. List goes on.

Hey poster, ya you stop acting like a stupid f*ck and pry your balls from your anus, this is really pathetic.

I'm stunned if this woman has ANY attraction to him at this point with all his posturing and pussy footing. Either he no longer falls on her radar at all, or she's as desperate as he is.

You haven't followed closely enough, then. Corey Wayne actually teaches to wait until she reaches out, then say something along the lines of "it's great to hear from you. I'd love to see you. When are you free to get together?" and then either set a date, or tell her "ok. Give me a call if you change your mind. Keep in touch." (pretty much exactly what I just told you)

Yes she should be doing all of the calling, but you're supposed to lead, set a date (or invite her over, which is what I'd do)

She's probably initiating more because she's comfortable with you as a friend. You're not brave enough to make a move which is just turning you into her little text buddy.

You're complaining that she's just messaging you and nothing else is happening, but you're just sitting around doing nothing as if she's supposed to lead... which hasn't worked out very well for you in the past. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.

ASK HER ON A DATE! "When are you free to get together? Got a cool place I want to show you. Dress casual!" (depending on where you're taking her). "Come over. We'll make dinner and catch up" ...doesn't really matter how you do it.

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