Hello guys, i know one girl for a pretty long time... she is very jealous of me, she is texting me sex messages and planning actions for next couple of months, but doesnt want relationship (she said)..i want, but i didnt tell her that..

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Have sex with her. Worry about changing your relationship status on facebook in 6 months.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Is this the same girl you are afraid to fuck because she wants to have sex to make sure that the two of you are sexually compatible before getting into a relationship?

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no, but it is similar situation

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Does this one have a penis as well?

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

How did you handle the similar situation? I'm guessing that you didn't follow that previous advice. If you did and it didn't work, you wouldn't come back here for advice. If it did work, you wouldn't need to come back.

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Have you slept with her yet?

How many of your standards does a girl who has no interest in being monogamous met before you started considering her for a relationship?

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So, i was in her house, drinking, funny night, i escalated, starting kino.. so she gave me massage with oil, after that we are kissing, touching her ass and kissing her neck and she stops me its weird, bcs we were friends for long time.. i said okay, after 5 minutes she starts touching me, i kissed her but she said it again, its weird.. now after 1 day.. we are texting, and she texts me she will never by able to sleep with me, bcs something missing there... i dont know what to do now, iam little confused now.

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You didn't escalate.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

what you mean didnt escalate? try to help me, i dont understand now...

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Always gently push the envelope. Physically and verbally escalate, push a little further, then pull back. If she's massaging you with oil Bro, she wants some "D"! You stopped at the 1st sign of resistance. She likely said something like, "We should stop, we've been friends a long time, I don't want to fuck that up."

Sound about right?

Agree with her, but don't stop the sexual energy. push the envelope. Yet at the same time, back off before the girl pushes you away. Always leave her wanting more.

Never force yourself. But PUSH THE ENVELOPE.

Sex is the goal here right? So obviously you need physical escalation to get you there.

So if you give up, and just stop, you ain't getting laid.

If you stop leading, there is nowhere to go. Next stop = LJBF's.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

It means whip your dick out.

For fuck sakes man.

There were multiple things that you could of done to actual get to fucking. Just break the friend frame by saying something like "I know, but you're turning me on so much right now I don't think I can just see you as a friend anymore", then continue to escalate.