I Still can't seem to find my sweetspot for general seduction.

What is the approach that you guys take to obtain and keep interest in a girl from dating app to girlfriend situation.?

I hear sometimes about making her feel like she is special (Like I picked her out form a crowd) works the best and yet other times i feel like playing it cool and showing little interest. Both often go wrong.
Sometimes I try to tease her, but then that also goes wrong. I go round in circles not knowing the best solution.

Of course it depends on the execution and I suppose the girl?..

interested to hear thoughts.

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You're thinking too big. You should be thinking dating app to meeting IRL.

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Well of course I am thinking about that initially, but I'm asking about the journey.

How do you start out? your approach etc..
How do you follow up?

Do people here concentrate generally on making the girl feel special initially or being more elusive. What gets the girl hooked the easiest to get her out on a date?

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i can give you my examples and it wont work for you,or someones else s wont work for me,everybody"s unique

This post sounds a little over complicated.

Give a recent situation of your dealings with a girl, how things went, and i'll comment and tell you where you can improve.

As far as the topic though.. Making yourself feel special is a requirement before you can legitimately make a woman you're trying to date feel special. You have to come from where you want to take her.

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Now that your thread has me thinking about it, I don't really think about keeping anyone's interest, just like I don't really think about how to keep my friends.

When I'm looking for a girlfriend, or a friend, I just find people I like being around and treat them like they are a girlfriend/friend. If you are talking about having some good dates and creating relationships, intimacy and trust is a good place to start. Put some effort in to make a decent first impression and carry that towards trying to figure the girl you're interested out and seduce her. You don't really have to worry about ''keeping interest'' why would a girl who sleeps with you or goes out with you not be interested in you?