I started by watching many of the youtube videos about approaching women but i never use any of their lines. After what happened today i feel that i have to stop approaching girls ever again. Today i was sitting with my male friends and this girl thats was sitting with about 7 guys sitting and she was starring at me the whole time, she also gave me all the signa to talk to her. So my friends encouraged me that i have to talk to her. I waited and waited till all of her friends left the table and i want and said " Hi , may i please have your number" her reaction was she sat there surprised and then suddenly one of her male friends thats was hitting on her came and sat beside her, asked her what was he telling you until she told him then the guy came to pick a fight with me and secuirty guards came made up a big deal of it.

My question here is should i stop trying ? If not what did i do wrong? If i was placed in the same situation again what should i have done.

I know its a long story but im little bit depressed about what happened

This is just awful.

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I accompanied my young friend (20 y.o.) to a club last week, and that was his opener shortly after saying "hi" he jumped to "can I have your number?"

I encouraged him to do this, knowing he'd get rejected (she was dancing, he wasn't calibrated at all, and there was o pretext). I wanted him to do so because I knew once he got rejected once he'd see its no thing and use that momentum to engage other girls, which he did the next day and ended up getting the # to this girl who works at the gym.

Ok this sounds like the guy was a jealous prick! Probably why you should have opened while the guys were there, engage them and just be friendly then you ask how they all know each other.

You're going to give up approaching because of this? come on dude! What are you going to do? become a monk? fuck that! I've had some really nasty rejections of women, women have even called the cops on me (when I first started!) I've had women tell me to go away cos they're not single!

You only fail when you give up. If the girl is out with her boyfriend or it seems that there is another guy interested in her. Just leave it and go approach other girls. But I'm guessing this incident happened in a bar or club. This is less common in the daytime but theres no need to stop going out at night either!

DONT GIVE UP!

I have had this problem before. When I felt nervous and just blurted out "give me your number ". You should instead of spoken properly to her.

I would of said "so what's a nice girl like you doing on her own. ". Have a conversation then said "Hey I better go and you seem cool, what's your number?"

what did you expect,first approach first close,you will get rejections again and again,that"s how you will learn if you"re smart,if you aren't,you will give up,and please is just the worse,never ever ask for permission,it"s a lot better to say give me your number and say sorry afterwords then to ask for permission,rejection is not a big deal,giving up is