What do you expect to hear?
Nearly every woman I've ever met has had some sort of insecurity/emotional issue. The older women get, the worse it gets, as they get tossed around and become more and more jaded/damaged. So many women have been through some sort of abuse whether physical or emotional. Many women have children by men that are no longer in their lives and obv had a dude in their life at sometime that they probably "loved." Then it of course didn't work out and they start slapping this label on guys saying they all suck. On average, the more exp a woman is with guys, the more they would rather stay asexual than risk having sex with a guy (most) that will run.
I recently ran into a woman that is older, has a kid but is fine by any standard. We talked around having a relationship, but I told her up front I couldn't. She admitted how sexually frustrated she is, and when I told her I'd help her with it, if she wants, she ignores me because she knows it would never be more. She admitted that's how she felt about previous BFs (used her for sex) and was emotionally abused. Great person though, so it was hard for me to walk instead of manipulate her into sleeping with me, then leaving.
Just this morning (listening to blondie and nugget in the morning) they called this guy to see why after sleeping with this woman he didn't text her back. He apparently lost his phone. In the 2 days that his phone was lost, she sent 10 texts flaming him for being an a-hole, etc, for using her for sex, so she thought. The woman went all neurotic/emo on the show and tried apologizing while the guy was just silent. She made herself look so bad...Anyway... Let be a lesson to guys what not to do

Not sure what you're thinking about doing about it... not like you can purge someone of all their emotional scars... in my own life the only thing that works is what the bible teaches; forgiveness. And that only comes from within and took me years to forgive the emotional abuse I've been through.
In the end the girl either likes you or not to keep talking with you and consider sleeping with you.