I place value on attractive women because I prefer them. Nothing wrong with that. Just like I do for certain musical artists or writers.
Who doesn't? But there's a difference between a high five from a co-worker/peer and a gorgeous brunette on her knees. Let's not pretend it's all the the same soup.

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And this shows exactly what you don't understand. I'm not talking about high fives from coworkers. I'm talking about my confidence in who I am, the life that I live and what I have to offer. I get to approach beautiful women without the fear of them rejecting me for silly disqualification shit because the more they see what I'm about the more they want to stay around. If you have your shit together in as many aspects of your life that you can then just about every woman that finds you even somewhat interesting/attractive will not want to let you get away.

Every man prefers attractive women, so you're not different in that way. I'm saying that you put too much value in them and when you do that it becomes your weakness.

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No, I understand it enough to not have to talk about it. It's just implied.

Absolutely true.

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That's bullshit. You just stated the difference between coworkers high fives and a hot brunette and it's not the same soup. You've talked about how you need to be a dick and selfish with 9s and 10s or they'll chew you up and spit you out. It obviously wasn't implied if you said those things.

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Please, watch some Hank Moody and how he handles conversations with girls. He's unapologetic, he's honest about his intentions with girls and "doesn't" have shame.


There are no tactics, tactics are very very short term solutions. It's about the vibe you're displaying. And as someone said you came of as needy guy from the start, trying to get the validation from the girl by being witty or something.

And to me, you came of as entertainer. Are you there to entertain her or fuck her? Why would you put yourself in position from the start to be her dancing monkey on command.

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Damaged women like to exploit shame in men, they can sniff it out and use it to get what they want, in most cases.

Don't be too hard on yourself, OP. As long as you learn from it and evolve it's all good. You approached - that's what counts. Keep doing it.

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