Granted, this is only my opinion - but yes:

Relationships are great (and I am open to having one) - but only in very extreme cases. The two parties have to be equal in every dimension you can think of, and more. The only way for a relationship to work is for those two people to be on close-to-equal grounds across all dimensions. Otherwise, one party will be always be dissatisfied.

Every relationship (whether it was 1 date or more) I've had has ended because both parties were not on the same page in one dimension or another. Here are a few examples (I'll name 1 main dimension for brevity's sake):

For my parents (married) it's political. Their rift in political views has caused their communication and mindset to be completely different, and therefore they don't function well as a team, period.

From my own relationships with women with children - I don't have children. Pretty simple. They have always wanted to get serious with me and I never feel it's right to do.

Young girls/uneducated - can't connect on an intellectual level. Get's boring really fast. I find myself wanting to go out and do other things to stimulate my brain after sex rather than spend time with them.

Psychological/sexual dimension - I asked a woman I was dating if she considered having a threesome with me. This ended the "relationship" as she thought she'd never be enough for me. Funny now, I don't care about having one anymore.

Top reason for divorce: Financial. Just another dimension.

Then I'm sure women have rejected me just based on looks and we all reject women just based on how they look. I've found I only like a very particular body type from hair down to skin tone.

I do appreciate I just might have a warped perspective on relations. But from the women I have met, to see how fickle people are nowadays, with how easy it is to meet another guy/girl, from all the people I know and relationships I've seen, and being a relatively "successful" male, I don't want anything but sex from a woman who is not in my same dimension (most women).

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Granted, this is only my opinion - but yes:

Relationships are great (and I am open to having one) - but only in very extreme cases. The two parties have to be equal in every dimension you can think of, and more. The only way for a relationship to work is for those two people to be on close-to-equal grounds across all dimensions. Otherwise, one party will be always be dissatisfied.

Every relationship (whether it was 1 date or more) I've had has ended because both parties were not on the same page in one dimension or another. Here are a few examples (I'll name 1 main dimension for brevity's sake):

For my parents (married) it's political. Their rift in political views has caused their communication and mindset to be completely different, and therefore they don't function well as a team, period.

From my own relationships with women with children - I don't have children. Pretty simple. They have always wanted to get serious with me and I never feel it's right to do.

Young girls/uneducated - can't connect on an intellectual level. Get's boring really fast. I find myself wanting to go out and do other things to stimulate my brain after sex rather than spend time with them.

Psychological/sexual dimension - I asked a woman I was dating if she considered having a threesome with me. This ended the "relationship" as she thought she'd never be enough for me. Funny now, I don't care about having one anymore.

Top reason for divorce: Financial. Just another dimension.

Then I'm sure women have rejected me just based on looks and we all reject women just based on how they look. I've found I only like a very particular body type from hair down to skin tone.

I do appreciate I just might have a warped perspective on relations.[/quote][/quote]This is much different than the "once you get to my level you won't want a relationship" talk now that we know that you actually do want a relationship. I thought you were putting on some false bravado. This explanation is not warped...the original statement was.

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Now isn't that an enigma? To know most relationships end up failures but we as human beings are social creatures and it's something we crave - socialism/sex being a basic human needs?

Yes, well that's somewhat correct. I was merely abbreviating my current view towards relationships. Being human, I would like one yes. But as my exp with women goes up, I find myself wanting less and less of a relationship, and more just a few regular sexual partners. Please tell me what man doesn't want that? Just being with another person doesn't matter who it is takes my mind off of my daily troubles. I don't need a "relationship" for that. We enter relationships for primarily sexual monogamy right? Well it's unnatural, and I'm pretty sure most guys would want several sexual partners.

Relationships/marriage are simple logical social constructs so that we have some sort of organization.

I was simplifying my thoughts for the OP, because doing/saying/worrying about what to DO will not be productive for him in this case.

"Let's just hang out".

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masterm1ne, I realize you said you'd like a relationship however it's not abnormal to not want to LTR pair bond whether you feel that way for a short time or a long time.

To the OP, maybe she didn't like an emoji you sent her. I'm not joking. Women can be fickle. Oh fucking well, there are more fish in the never ending sea!

Interesting conversation lads. I wrote her back using ur advice here. I still dont understand how she could do a complete 180 like this. Never in my life have I experienced a situation like this lol