I met a 19 year old college girl (I'm 26) on campus last Monday doing daygame. Got her out for a date on Saturday night where we went to a cafe, then lounge and then to mini-golf. (tried to get her into this dark secluded bar, but they turned us away at the door because she was under 21)

I made an unsuccessful attempt halfway through that date to bounce her to my apartment (she said it was too fast) because I'm short on time. I leave on Sunday to go overseas for a 9 month military deployment. That means I have only this friday or saturday to seal the deal.

I haven't contacted her since we parted ways on Saturday night. She turned her head on the goodbye kiss, but she allowed me to lead her the whole 3 hour date night and verbally agreed to meet again - although I know words don't mean much.

My plan is to send her a picture ping on Wednesday night with the goal of getting her out Friday or Saturday. We've already done the night out at a bar/lounge thing. So I'm thinking invite her to join me for a workout at my gym or hers on campus/go grocery shopping to cook a meal at mine or to explore my local town square (she lives 30 minutes away though). I met her as she was going to workout at the campus gym so that date idea could be a good tie-in.

Since all my stuff will be moved out of my apartment by then, I'm considering getting an airbnb downtown that will be closer to her anyway.

So my question is does this plan maximize my chances of getting laid or do I need to contact her sooner than Wednesday and/or re-think my date strategy?

If you can pull it off the Airbnb cooking dinner at your place after the gym seems like a good idea. If she denies physical escalation again it may be worth breaking it to her that your leaving she may give you a farewell bang. Otherwise, you may have no chance at all to get the lay and then regret not letting her know after you leave.

I would try to use methods to get her horny like body language, teasing, kino

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OP here. Thanks for the reply. Consulted a friend who feels gym won't be conducive to segway into dinner. She will want to shower after and possibly be self conscious. Alternative plan is to invite her sweater shopping for.my brothers upcoming birthday.


I'm also thinking about giving her "homework," i.e. buying me a gift that costs $2 or less or taking a picture of herself everyday between now and the date in a public place and sending to me.

You mean the girl allowed you to drive her around town, buying her drinks while she under 21, and trying to get her into exclusive spots for 3 hours? Wow. You must be awesome.

The point is man, when it came down to it, she wasn't ready to give you the levels of compliance that you were looking for so you were not on your A game. She wasn't letting you "lead" her, leading her is compliance with escalation on your terms. Leading isn't her allowing you to treat her to an amazing night. You made this shit sound like she was doing you the favor when you were doing all the driving, and trying to pull all the strings for her. She should of been thanking you, but because this isn't you attitude she's not going to respond to you in this manner.

You're only going to bang the girl if you're no nonsense about it. Hell, I wouldn't even take her on another date. I'd call her up(on the phone), talk for a bit, making her laugh, and let her know that I got an Airbnb since I'm leaving in in the morning and that I'm going to pick her up and bring her on by. If she resist, it means I'm not on my game. I'll appeal to her emotions a bit more, try again, and then drop it and move on with my life if my game isn't sharp enough in the moment to pull through.

Don't put too much weight in this. Go for the hard sale, and pull out and breeze on through life if you're not sharp enough in your game yet to pull it through. Take the experience, work on your game, and get the next one.

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