hey,

long story short i was play boy, fall in love, stick with one girl, she`s gone, i cant find any attraction for any other girls,

girls keep hiting on me flattering with me etc, but im in state of
MEH,...

i dont know how to get over it, i barid my self with work,sport,

its not like i dont like other girl in matter of fact i want to be with them too but must of the time im not in right stat of mind, most of the time i miss hit form girl,

my friend keep yelling at me WTF dude that gilr was totaly hitting on you why you did not do anything ?
and im like WTF ? whaaat ? didnt saw her !
i dont use any drug,etc.

im currently reading art of suduction by robert green (great book like all his other books).

but yes that is really bad problem for me, 4 month pass i didnt had any date. and even my ex-gf keep telling me go meet other girl, why u doing this to your self...
i dont know what the hell is wrong with me .

this is my daily routing, wake up around 10 am, shower break fast, start working until 4~5 pm then im GOING OUT TO FIND GIRL !!! but i always get back with no luck ... because this thing i dont know what is it what i should call it...

i read alot of david D, carlus XUMA, gambler ,valenting, mystery,style, be for i fall in love, i had many gf and i had no time was super busy with having sleep with them 2 gf a day ...

and last time around 2011, i passed 7 number a day challanger i pick 7 girl every day for a weak,

i dont know what is going on with me why i became that shy,low self steam(may be) but in interviews im the one control conversion, i dont know why i stuck on this mind stat for sooooo loong.

A good way to find motivation is to ask yourself what it is you really want. If you know the why, then you can start asking yourself the how and do it. I used to have a similar state of mind as well and I needed to find some motivation for myself. Sometimes just taking any form of action will allow you to build momentum. Even if you don't feel like approaching girls, start approaching them and staying in set and get some feedback (positive/negative) from them. Over time you will start getting more positive feedback and that can further motivate you. Finding other wings to go out with and hold you accountable can also be another form of motivation.

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