I don't really have a problem hooking up with girls, but my current problems involve keeping some of them around. I hooked up with this girl over New Years, she spent a few nights at my place, then had to leave to go on vacation with her friends. She added me on FB, texted me but things fizzled out and I maintained radio silence, partly because I'm extremely busy hitting the gym and trying to further my career. I want to reinitiate with her but I'm not sure how to go about doing so...

A bit more background. I briefly had a thing with one of her friends and she has seen this girl all over me in the past. The way I see it I have two options: Maintain radio silence and see if she pops up again or try and hit her up and kickstart things again.

Any ideas?

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I've got 99 problems but...

well... if you're not too invested i'd say just shoot her a text next time you're out.....

hey! i'm at <this cool place> doing <these cool things>! hope you're well...i'll drop ya a line soon

don't invite her out

if she's interested she'll reengage


if you're too invested it'll probably just come across as desperate so i'd say just maintain radio silence

Don't worry. Just reopen the conversation again. And what other poster wrote, always invest less than the girl. Keep your texts short, be time unpredictable when answering, etc. You mentioned you are busy in life so that shouldn't be a problem.


The other girl isn't the problem.

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Uncertainty is the root of all progress and all growth.

Yeah, I know as much, social proof and all of that jazz.

Cheers for the advice folks

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I've got 99 problems but...

I wrote an article for wayoftheplayer called " is Your Girl Slipping Away? "

Its exactly what you need to read. Go check it out.

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