Hey, Let me start out by saying i've had an account for awhile, i was into this as a hobby for a little but since ive started college and stuff I've been out of putting effort into dating for awhile. Anyways i feel i have an okay grasp of text game.

Background on girl:

I met this girl on new years, I was thoroughly drunk so I might've seemed like a bit of an idiot haha, but I know that there was some sexual tension I'm pretty good at sensing it. I was friends with one of her friends, and she brought this girl with her. Her friend told me she's never had a serious boyfriend (maybe i should just give up at the thought of that? haha), so I know this one will be difficult to play well. Anyways here is how our conversation went.

Basically I told her she needs to get more free time so we can chill, then this is our conversation.

Lol I'll see what I can do [weak passive response]
(her)

I have an idea, 7pm on Sunday is a good time to get a drink, is there any good local bars by you? [Trying to be more demanding and suggestive]
(me)

Hmm [shitty response this girl is just super uptight]
(her)

Just hmm? Maybe maggy was right.. haha i was hoping you'd prove her wrong. [A little more pressure (maybe too much for this girl?) Also some insight, her friend maggy told me we wouldn't work out because this girl is too uptight, so I figured by bringing this up it would make her wanna prove herself to me.]
(me)


I'm just stressed out lately. I'm always tired unsure emoticon you can believe Maggy or not. Doesn't matter to me. Not going to change who I already am. I just value my downtime. And with hw and school and work I have very Little of it [Did this bitch just imply her downtime is too important for me? She's like a HB 6.5 at best, I just liked her personality]
(her)

I want to believe you, dont take it the wrong way, You seem stressed; a beer might help you relax smile emoticon I also value my downtime. Sooo if im wasting my time let me know Alex. Its an easy yes or no question haha dont feel pressured, you wont hurt my feelings theres a million things i can do on sunday at 7pm instead of hanging out with you, i just think theres a side to you that people dont realise and i wanna get to know that side. [Done wasting my time, trying to see if she can let go of the uptightness, suggesting i might also have insight in something most people dont see in her, mainly because i suspect she secretly has low self-esteem and this might intrigue her]
(me)

Lol how about I take like a week to get used to this new schedule and then let you know? I have t kinda figure out when to work on my hw and stuff.
(her)

Not sure what to say back to this.. I thought about replying but i wanna here your suggestions. I am considering just forgetting about it, or letting her know that I think she is wasting my time. I can't decide if she isn't just straight out telling me no because she is scared to hurt my feelings/make it awkward (which i dont see why that would be the case since i told her i honestly dont give a fuck it would save me time) or if she just wants to feel wanted, or best case scenario she actually is just busy and does want to hang out.

Anyways, what do you guys think?

Tl;dr: Uptight girl who i met on new years never had a bf, and is saying i should wait a week to try to make plans with her.

She doesn't seem interested and you're trying to force the issue. She got to the point where she is saying "leave me alone about this for a week while I come up with more excuses" which will all be school related.

Rule of thumb...if a girl is interested in you, she will make time for you.

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If she's interested enough, she will sleep on the ground, in front of your car, in the rain.

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Yeah that's what I thought, thanks for the advice guys lol I figured she wasn't worth the time anyways.

Edit: It's just annoying how women can't be open even after you tell them it wont hurt your feelings lmfao. Maybe I'm just getting too old and losing my patience for this social dance around intentions.

You should never expect them to do so.

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