So when I first got to college I met two girls who ended up being my really close girlfriends. That's cool except they had one other friend who had a long distance relationship. So basically throughout the course of a year we would see each other often because of her friends and we would end up cuddling and grinding hard at the club whenever I took the girls out.

She always seemed bothered by the fact that I was really close with her friends and she would tease me but I thought nothing of it because she would mention her boyfriend. Every time I would game other women infront of her she wouldn't get mad but she would try to distract me but when I would try to do something like say kiss her she said we shouldn't be doing this we're friends and I was like wow fuck you because we're really not lol So I just kept my cool and wouldn't give her much attention.

Skip forward six months and one of the two bestfriends ended up staying home for this school year so I didn't really have a main friend this year. It seems like she has slowly tried to get me to talk to her more and hang out with her more but I really didn't see any point in it.

One day I was just like fuck it and we would hang out and do things like take car rides and watch movies or whatever. I started feeling the tension more and more as we hung out more and one day she picked me up and we drank wine and started fooling around. We ended up just sleeping together on the bed half naked just talking all night. When I woke up I asked her if she cared because of her boyfriend and she said she didn't regret anything and that she had a awesome time with me. She never took her boyfriend seriously because he was basically her bitch.

Turns out that her boyfriend and her got into a huge fight because she was posting pictures up with me online and her boyfriend was always jealous of me. The relationship went sour and two days later she texted me saying she was really upset with him. I didn't want to be her shoulder to cry on so I told her that I told one of the girls to call her so they could have "girl time". She ended up calling me later that night because I accidentally called her and I said that I didn't mean to call her and that if she was okay and she replied saying "yeah i'm fine you don't have to worry about me" and more "I'm fines". I let her have her little moment and I said okay get better and I said bye and she said bye. Why do I get the feeling that I fucked up at that moment and that she was thinking that I wouldn't just be another guy that didn't give a fuck about her?

A week later and we go out to the club because apparently "she single and needs drinks". I think she's trying to act like she's using me to make herself feel less hurt. I took her home and we ended up cuddling and just falling asleep.

But then, she wakes me up at nine in the morning saying that I got to go because she has to get to studying and doing homework and other things. She didn't even let me sleep on the couch. This whole time I thought I was just the fucking friend that could hang around but I guess not.

She texted me like 6 hours later saying that she hopes I'm not mad at her and that she's sorry and I told her that I wasn't mad at all but that she owes me. So to wrap this up, what do I do with this girl? All of a sudden she's lashing out at me and treating me like another guy but I thought we were "friends"?

Have sex with her. Sounds shallow, but it'll fix the problem.

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Bro, stop being her cuddle buddy girlfriend and fuck her already.

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Haha yeah I know I will but like I'm honestly still confused as hell. I guess next time I'll just go into full sex mode then. I just didn't know what she was trying to tell me at all...

Half naked boy + Half naked girl = Sexy time.

Your in college that equation shouldn't be hard to figure out. Quit over thinking.

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I wonder how she didn't put you in the friendzone yet

Are you afraid to escalate? Or what are you trying to do?

I always had that fear of rejection. I got trough that fear by starting to tickle them, if they reciprocate you start to "wrestle" a little, little push and pull, then you kiss her on the neck, if she doesn't mind. You're all set go.

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Shit guys I guess that's my issue with this girl. I kind of afraid to escalate with her seeing how we started off as friends but damn I feel like such a pussy now. With other girls I don't really feel afraid to just grab them and do how I please but with her it's different. How do you guys suggest I escalate this situation then next time we're alone? We haven't really spoken about it or anything we just kinda just do things and that's it. So it's kind of weird to just straight up talk about us having sex... Should I plant the topic into her head first then start making moves or what?

Lol. So you grab other girls and do how you please but you want to straight up talk about having sex with this girl?

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Haha not literally grab them like a doll and just fuck them but I mean it's much easier. I didn't mean like "oh hey want to have sex?" and girl "yeah that sounds awesome let's do it!" I read somewhere that just bringing up the topic of sex with a woman in a casual conversation, gets them horny or in the mood. Is that not true? I feel like it breaks down another shield that a woman might have. I don't know I could be wrong lol that's why I'm asking for help haha

You were in bed with her half naked once and cuddled a second time. There is nothing that you two need to talk about or plant any seeds. When you start "fooling around", don't stop short.

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It's not their shield. They want to be led by real man who is enough comfortable in himself and sexuality of you and her, thus making a move should be only natural, and expected.

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You are already on your path to friendzone OP, next time is your last time, make it count.

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JackZero: You're right I'm definitely not stopping next time for anything. I was just overthinking things and it got to me.

Cross De Lena: I was just thinking that I just gotta be extra confident and dominate her. This weekend I'm seeing her again and I'm definitely gonna take her aside and just go all the damn way.


Thanks guys. I can't believe I overthought this whole situation like this

She's only doing what you're willing to put up with man. The man that was willing to put up with being her bitch got treated like her bitch. And you're going to fall right in line with the program. You're cuddling and consoling her on the phone and what not.. What do you expect? Your time has to be more valuable than you spending time doing things that you don't want to do, because you think its going to lead to you getting laid. You are the leader in this situation. This ain't the workforce.

Now you're here on the forum moaning about her? That oneitis at its finest.


Read this:pua-lounge/topic190620.html and if you need to, just drop the girl, it isn't worth it.

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or what.

j/k i didn't read any of this.