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So here is an update. I picked her up after she was finish at work yesterday. And ended up with some "netflix and chill" and she slept over. She was going to work today, as her store had stocktaking today, so I drove her to work. But now. Dead silent. Not a single sms or a snap from her to day.
So what is the next step? Wait? Or should I be the one to reach out?
So from yesterday to today you haven't heard from her? I'm guessing you're not seeing the problem is not her, but more with you. I'm going to give you some very simple instructions that you need to follow without question.
1. Look at your watch and write down the time and date.
2. Wait exactly one week before you reach out to her.
3. If she contacts you before the week is up, wait a full 8 hours before you respond. If you happen to go to bed before you respond, respond the next day.
4. If her contacting you was because she wanted to meet up, tell her that you're busy but maybe another time. It must be after the date and time that you wrote down in step 1. Post how it worked here.
5. If she doesn't contact you within that one week in any way, write down the date and time and post your results here.
6. If she hadn't contacted you, prepare for me to tell you to follow steps 1-5 again.
The goal here is for you to become too busy for her so that she'll notice. If she even likes you more than casual fucking, she will reach out to you and wonder what's wrong and if she's done something wrong.