A lot of the resources out there that I've read focus on being in a group of guys, but honestly the only times I took someone home from the clubs is when I was on my own or met some women at the club. I prefer going to the club by myself. I must be doing something right I guess. Any articles out there that assess this issue? I'm looking for "best practices" to really see what I am doing well, what I am doing wrong, and a plan for improvement when going out to club environments by yourself.

Searching forums, sometimes people are concerned on what will happen if a woman or a group of women ask why you are at the club alone, but honestly this has never been a sticking point for me ever. The one time someone a group of two women asked me why I was alone and I was honest and said I was flying solo, I didn't make up an elaborate excuse like some articles suggest, and before closing one of them left her friend when she went to leave and instead went to go to another bar with me and from there I took her home.

In my case, I think it helps that I am a regular at multiple clubs by name and the bouncers and bartenders take care of me because I take care of them. Like if they think I've drunk enough that it would sway my game negatively they will gave me a sprite with a lime in it and encourage me to talk to a group or introduce me. They will also let me know if anyone in particular is looking at me and once the security staff pre-emptively kicked out another man who was starting to get too snappy with me over one of the girls in the club. In a sense, the staff are my collective wing men.

I am also usually the best dressed person in the club, with suits or a tuxedo (not the suits you would wear at the office think of the suits on Pitbull's New Year Celebration in Miami) and ladies around town tell me how they heard of me through other people and they heard I am a ladies man, go out a lot, and drink a lot.

I also don't go around walking up to every group and try to interact with them. I take a confident pose at the closest bar by the entrance where my face is situated where I can see the most going on and strike up conversations, it is usually fairly easy after someone compliments my attire.

I feel like I need to do more to attain my potential. I'm not outcome-dependent, I try to develop an "abundance mentality" but sometimes in the back of my mind I think what holds me back is that this city only has around 100,000 people so after living here for 2 years the club-goers know what I'm about and put up an "anti-player" shield whether this exists in reality or not I think about it.

I didn't read your text wall but I feel qualified to answer this question because, sadly, I've done this a lot.

Thank you Miami for providing the meat.

Anyway here's how you do it(and alone)

1. Rubbers.
2. Confidence.
3. She has to be somewhat inclined to want to get fucked.
4. Pull the trigger when she's hot and bothered.

Sound simple?

Because it is.

The hard part is finding the girl with the right logistics but that's not that hard either, I could only assume it would be hard for a new guy.

Take action.

Of course, this was a short version of what can be a rather lengthy topic of discussion, but I like to keep things simple.

Because lets face it guys, getting laid is not hard.

The hard part is becoming confident.

And that's not hard either, it just takes investment in yourself and a bit of time.

But you can do it.

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Shields and resistance only create circumstances to strengthen your game man. That just means that your game will be that much stronger than anyone who isn't confronted with the resistance that you are confronted with once you work through it.

It doesn't sound like you're approaching all that often if you ask me.

And going out solo is definitely the way to go if you don't have a group of guys who are as skilled or better than you at this. Anyone else is going to hold you back and thats not what you need when your focus is on improving your game.

How often are you approaching? And how often are you attempting to extract women out the club?

I think that the bouncers and bartenders knowing who you are is impacting your game more than anything else. Theres "eyes on you" and that may force you to have to play a character thats anti seductive. The guy being "too cool" acting a certain way because he knows that eyes are on him. A good idea would be to travel to a bigger city and see how you do, and them come back.

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Finding a woman who's relatively DTF
Being attractive (encompasses physical looks, clothing, and personality)
Logistics

That's pretty much it. In that order