He wants to know how to have more topics to talk about,

get in field and talk about your day, talk, about your interests, your dislikes, refer embarrassing or cool experience to what she just said..
Get some interesting hobbies to share stories about

anything... do you text her all day and night? find more girls so you dont get attached to this 1
i still say in person is best if you can't Facetime is better seeing you then not seeing you,

have you watched Pua disc's ? you should have picked that up with his example clubbing, if you lose eye contact she has the chance to look around to find something better.. focus her attention on you abit more, you sound pretty friend zoned to me you can find that quote here: pua-videos/rules-the-game-neil-strauss-vt194481.html

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She's already told me things about her... I'm just looking for ways to get her interested through flirting through texts

I've already had long phone conversation

I'm just trying to disqualify her in a way that's not abrasive

you my friend are not listening.

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Yes I have other options

Stop being so gamey.

Don't text her if your goal is to just to make fun of her.

Your goal should be to meet up. If she is in Brazil, she is obviously going to be busy and she has told you that her phone won't be active:

Her -I wont have my phone on me:(

What do you gain by texting a disabled phone? All what is going to happen, she will return to her home country with about 30 messages in a row from you. I don't get your logic.

You sir, are going to mess this up if you continue the way you are doing. Be smooth, your texts makes you look like a mong. You must be good looking if she is willing to put up with this. Geez

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He didn't ask if you did?

Are you foreign to the English language?

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He suggested I find more girls so I don't get attached as he put it... My response was I have other options

I probably do text her too much

She just texted me asking why do I think she looks different in some of her pics... Going back to a comment I made making fun of her from what she said about okcupid...."You look different in your pictures... I'll check with my Nigerian-English friend to see if he knows you"

I think because I'm so busy im not think what I'm trying to do with these texts or where is it going... For example if I don't talk to a girl for a while I feel I have to reestablish rapport to some extent or remind her that I'm fun to get her to go out... Maybe I'm trying too hard?

This IS called - NEEDINESS

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Really? Are you sure she remembers you? I'm sure your text messages aren't the only ones... So asking a chick to meet unless if there's strong attraction for quick cup a coffee sometimes needs a little more

I will keep it simple for you. If it was me

In this situation, she told me she going to Brazil. Before she goes, I will wish her a good journey and tell HER to text ME when she get's back.

You probably know the date when she back home. But still, I will see if she texts me to test her interest level for me. If she doesn't I will give her 2/3 days till after she is home to text me.

If she texts you, great, ask her when she is free after the jet lag.

If no text, i will text her 'Hey, did your plane crash or you still alive? ' and take it from there, I will then ask her when she free for a meet up.

That is I what I'd do in this situation.

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dose not relate to me saying this to you
you are saying you replied this..
yes you do text her too much, i think you need to find Online Dating websites.. in a way you seem inexperienced in-field
Dragula and I are trying our utter most to support you as a newbie, you seem misleading and you misunderstand the conversations,
it makes me wonder if you read her messages proberly

I am ranting now because this is pathetic bro, you have low self-esteem or something.. ?? Life isn't all about coffee, unless you are in-field at star bucks..

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I am sure we had established this earlier.
my reply is To OP i just quoted you: You have invested quite alot of time hoping she accepts you, She will sense this neediness, Women know nearly every fucking thing.. she wouldn't even need to prove herself to you, she already knows you have the fucking hots for her your already attracted,

Rather then seduction stage some people use manipulation as a proxy, as persuasion tactics can be used on anyone after attraction.. your just getting walked on in a way

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all i say now is
1. "Ditch the bitch" and start again... there are plenty of goldfish out there
2. get the fuck off social media, stop asking numbers off your facebook friends..
3. Go out to your local town or into the city and talk like a fucking tape recording,
4. Grow a physical connection,
5. Only use your cellphone to organize meetings, I barely use my phone..

there are missing steps but you can think of them, don't be a Carbon Copy..

You make me FacePalm so hard SMH...

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dragula thanks for the advice. I [never] planned on texting her while she's gone. I'm not desperate, just my texting makes me look that way....lol... Texting seems to be a sticking point that detracts from everything else that goes well.

I know how to flirt, just that my excessive texting is a bit of a game killer....[if anyone has any resources on texting game that works with hot classy women feel free to let me know] lol

I use to try not to text because I think jokes/flirting can be easily misinterpreted. I've noticed, unless you've built a rapport with a woman or she's heavily attracted to you (physically or how you carry yourself) you have to text/talk her.... so she's comfortable meeting you... I've noticed this to be the case mostly for online dating which is reasonable enough.... generally I have women eager to meet but I'm talking more about the women I'm interested in (for sex or for more)....

sometimes beautiful women contact me online or through text messages and my text messages seem to sabotage the conversation.... I mean things start strong and then end not so much