There is this girl I tried to game but she told me she had a boyfriend whom she has been dating for 3 years, well me and her were voted to host a Christmas event for our town. During the time planning and rehearsing, we got really close and cool. Two days before the event we pulled an all nigher together and things got really personal, I opened up to her and we started to make out, after the make out, she got really upset and left and didn't talk to me until day of the event, which her boyfriend showed up for support.

After the event she sent me this long text message saying how she couldn't be around me anymore blah blah. I remember reading some advice on a similar situation on here where someone said just reply "I understand". I used that advice and cut all contact with her but now she keeps texting me little things such as "Is my hair bow at your place" "What's john's number" I don't reply or i'm just short with my answers and she will always say "okay I'll leave you alone now" after each one.

she texted me today saying that she wants to become friends again and spend time like we use to before the make out session. should I reinvest my time or is this just a mind game she is trying to play with me ?

Get some alcohol down her, then her flower will be yours

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My school counselor said that is considered rape

Well, it isn't, seems more like your 'counselor' is scare mongering projecting to me.

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Yeah she's interested man.

How you get her is how you lose her though so if you go through with this, don't go getting emotional and posting any oneitis threads in 2-3 months. She'll pull you into an emotional maelstrom and if you're not rooted in your reality and the direction you want this to go; holding to it without compromise you'll be sucked up and on the forum crying about how to make her your girlfriend.

I personally say drop her and move on. But perhaps you need to learn from this to become stronger. So do it. Just be aware of what I said above and you'll be straight.

She naturally can't see her boyfriend the same anymore because of what happens. And now she's going to play tug of war, (because women love the emotional realm that this situation creates) as long as she can until this situation takes a turn. Its not so much "you" as it is the emotional opportunity that this situation presents for her. She's subconsciously love it. So just get what you can from this and remember that it isn't about you, its about how she'll benefit from the emotions this situation presents.

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thank you guys for the advice, I had game her at a new years party and brought her back to my place to look for her hair bow ended up having sex with her. She hit me with the same bull crap again acting upset and leaving and then texting me how it was a mistake and we can no longer be friends... I didn't respond and don't plan on talking to her again, to bad she was crazy the sex was amazing