Hey guys, I'm not new to this forum, but this is the first time I've written my own post. Therefore, I think I should start with a short introduction. I'm PHtoday, I roam around this forum from time to time. I wouldn't say I'm a super experienced PUA, but my game works often. Often indeed, but not always. Normally I move on, I dont give a shit when girls dont take the bait. However, this is an exception and I am not looking to give up on this one.

Now let's get to the story:

I game with girls for some time now. Experimenting, what I'd say. I'm using different approaches on different kinds of girls, wether I like them or not. Now a few months ago I've met this girl at my friends houseparty. I would say I felt a connection, I'm not too sure about that. However, I am sure that I like this girl. I've had a nice convo with her, I thought (or am thinking) she liked me. Of course, I started texting her (didn't get her number, used facebook messaging), started a few days later after I've met her ofcourse. I thought I'd post everything of our convo, so you could judge my game. I'm more than sure that I've made some horrible mistakes.

Me: Congratulations
Her: Thanks
Her: But with what? hahaha
Me: I thought about you, which doesn't happen quite often.
Her: hahahahaha
Me: I was listening tp [artist], then I realized you was into him too. (We both like the same artist)
Her: Yea! New album on 8th of August
Me: Yes, in fact he's gonna have a Europe tour
Her: OMG
Her: *sends some huge weird dance emotion thing
Me: The fuck?
Her: hahaha
Me: Yea, well I'm off to training. I guess I'll speak to you later
Her: Goodluck with training!

I've visited a houseparty but I couldn't stay. I came to pickup a friend there. However, it did come to my attention that she saw me there. She was standing next to a friend of mine and pointed at me. She seemed happy. I ignored that, a moment later she waved and said hi to me. Which I saw as an IOI

Some days later

Me: Does it happen often that you ignore relatives when you see them at the fair, ma'am? (Hadn't seen her, just an opener)
Her: Well, the last time I've been there was last year
Her: So I don't remember that quite well..
Me: I could've sworn I saw you yesterday. Awkward
Her: I was at home yesterday... lol
Me: So the biggest fair of the country is in town and you are being boring at home?
Her: Yup
Me: I bet you was listening to [artist], I wont blame ya

No response after that, didn't want to come across to needy after that, so I havent spoken to her for a while and was gaming other girls. Coulnd't get her out of my head, so eventually, I started again.

Me: Bitch, I've got [album which wasnt released yet of the artist] (at this point, I preferred using that artist as its a common interest and I thought it ensured me a reply.)
Her: For fucks sake, how?
Me: I can't tell everyone, too bad.
Her: Hello
Her: I'm [name]
Her: pls
Me: What are you trying to say, little one?

Again, no response to this. Now I had given her up after this. Went on gaming other girls to get over her. However it still wasn't over. I guess I liked her. I've seen her in the club some time later. She was happy to see me it seemed. I approached her, but it was a slaughtered. It went terrible. I went to shit quickly as I ran out of things to say and I stood there like an idiot before I said that I had to go to my friends and walked off.
That's like a month of 3 ago. Now a week ago or so, I met her when I was going out with some friends. As soon as she saw me, she told me in a friendly-braggy way she was going to a concert of the artist we liked. I nodded and said nice, then continued talking to a friend of hers. No interaction with her from that, because after that she walked off to other friends. Yesterday I gave another shot of talking to her via fb messenger.


Me: I just fucking realized you are going to the concert
Her: I fucking know right hahaha
Me: Are you going to [new years event at a club]
Her: ouioui
Me: Congratulations, you are nominated for the worst socially person of the week, when do you want to pick a price?
Her: hahaha
Her: I am being social with family SPAM
Me: Fair enough, you've got my permission as I can imagine that being important to you.

She read the last part, but no response.

I don't feel like giving up on her soon, however I do realize that I do come across too needy if I continue talking to her. What did I do to utterly fuck this up and what should I do after this? Should I do anything at all?

You've fluffed her to death.

ASK HER ON A DATE.

Small talk is not game, you're communicating for the sake of attention. Instead, communicate to arrange a real life face to face meeting,

'How about a drink sometime?'

THAT IS ALL THAT IS NEEDED. If she declines, she isn't interested. If she accepts, she is interested. I don't get why guys communicate like this without any purpose of meeting them. It's like you're waiting for her to ask you out. Doesn't work like that.

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Ugh. Scale back on the canned lines and gamey crap too.

It's douche-chillingly bad.

I realize you say that your game works often, but I'm not seeing anything here that would make this girl be interested in you or think you have any interest in her.

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Yes, you are right.

Exactly, normally it works. It's just her that doesn't fall for it like others do. I think this is why I want her so bad. The fact that I feel rejected. Also the pressure of trying to make up my mistakes has gotten to me.

You're not getting what I'm saying. There is nothing good about your text that you send her. You can barely tell that you're talking to a female. Nothing indicates attraction or would make her want to hang out with you. If your game works it's not because of your text. If she's not acting the way girls normally act when you run your game, you must be doing the right things face-to-face.

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I see your point and I'll adjust. I also assume I should escalate during texts? Can you give me a right example or even a link to what explains how proper text game should be. I'd appreciate the help.

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30 something lines of text and not one sexual innuendo WTF?

It's not that she didn't respond. she fell asleep....

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