Lol I'd rather people like you disagree with me.

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Of course that's true. If it weren't for me disagreeing you wouldn't have changed your mind and agreed that the best route would be verbally communicating your needs in a relationship for problem solving. See, you can learn.

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That's the thing. Whenever the name "Mystery" is mentioned, there are few things which people assume automatically and that's what I don't understand. As an example, this ^^ (when one follows them with blind allegiance.)

I don't follow him blindly. I even disagree to many of his methods, doesn't mean I have to curse him every time his name is mentioned. The fact still remains. he is the founder of this community, whether you like him or not.

The point is, if you can't respect the founder of this community "with blind allegiance" then don't expect other people to follow you too (or even thank you). Because as you say, no one is bound to thank people or follow them. You take your precious time to help them that's awesome though.

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Expectations, dogmatic thinking (eg. "Shoulds", "musts" etc) and any other absolutist beliefs and thoughts can not only stifle most relationships but also be quite dangerous. Particularly when one follows them with blind allegiance.[/quote]

N2, when you give the meaning of the gift, is this not absolutist and dogmatic? Come on, you cant say people shouldnt expect something, then say you're against "shouldnt's." Maybe you didnt use the word shouldnt, but it was the same. You said your view of gift giving and maybe some people have other expectations. That's fine. But you can't be anti dogma, after saying your dogma.

And Style, I'll never understand the Myst/Style thing. You'd swear that all these years of bashing the Game and new methods being used, the average newbie was getting success more than when he read the Game in 2000. I can honestly say, of all the cities Ive been in, the guys who start with MM, on average, get better with women-dates/lays/relationships than the guys I've met doing 60 yrs, or rsd or whatever else. Maybe my experiences are skewed or I met the wrong guys, but thats what I've seen.

And I don't doubt that.

I'm just against unnecessary bashing of anyone. See all newbie threads on this forum and how they get linked to MM somehow, out of nowhere. My point is just that If someone believes that his methods are not useful, don't recommend it or even disagree. But show enough respect to him by not bashing him everytime unnecssarily, he still did a major contribution to this community (whether good or bad). Speciallly those who are themselves making threeads and complaining about why people are not showing gratitude for their help.

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1) Take responsibility for the situation and try and figure out what you're doing wrong. Is your behavior alpha like, or are you a pussy at her whim? Or are you taking advantage of her and making her do all the stuff around the house. In other words, self-reflect on what things you can do to improve yourself and how you treat her
2) Seduce her. Send her flirtatious texts on occasion, learn and understand kino, and study how women are wired a lit differently. They aren't like us and they need to be warmed up. So don't expect her to have sex at the drop of a hat
3) There is a real possibility here that she has totally lost interest in you or worse cheating on you. If that is the case, dump her and move on using what you've learned in #1 and #2 to
improve your next relationship

So above all else, be a man, take the lead and the responsibility for the relationship. Empower yourself with knowledge by studying pickup, to better understand female psychology. Improve yourself and seduce her. And do little things to help her, like wash the dishes once in a while. If she isn't pulling her weight around the house, have a conversation with her. If she isn't also willing to do
for you, as you do for her, she's a selfish bitch...move on.

I see this sort of thing all the time amongst my age peers. Most of the time the wife lost respect for the husband or never really had it for him but settled on the least objectionable male to marry. Be the fucking man she craves and always be a man.

Think about what was going on when your relationship was fresh and new. What kind of things did y'all do together, what type of lifestyle did you/she have, and how did you treat each other "outside" of sex? I think this is most likely a change in lifestyle that one or both of you made, and as such the attraction has started slipping/been lost. If you've changed "who" you are, then you are no longer "who" she fell in love with!

What have you changed about your lifestyle, friends, activities, etc.?

Also, what are both of your ages?

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