I'm not that good with girls and my life sucks too for te moment. I've been dominated and manipulated by bad people and I don't get control over my life; it's weighing on me heavily.

I hope I can make the same trajectory as you guys.

You need to learn the art of the reframe

Wanna know how I'd be trying to view that situation? "I'm so glad those dickheads are now out of my life. Now I can fucking DOMINATE this shit and make life my bitch. So, how am I gonna do it?" which of course is the question that you now need to answer.

Now I don't know about you, but I hear all the best guys (the ones with the biggest feet) start out by jumping in at the deep end and forcing themselves to talk to girls. But if you're a little less masculine and you don't want the best results for yourself, you could start real slow and make excuses, maybe trying some online game here and there. You decide.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

Thanks for the advice.

We were confronted with abuse of power and corruption and it ways a lot on my private life and it makes me having problems with women. I think women sense it, it just weighs on me. It's a real mess and it stinks a lot. I'd better leave it for what it is and get on with my life.

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[*]It made it clear to me how most women see guys as creepy, especially all the mysoginist creepy frames it promotes and lame techniques and the general insecurity it evokes in males. So it's changed my life by giving me perspective on what NOT to do and out of that learned how to look inward and be my own person.

Nothing has affected me in a positive way more than the PUA community. Thanks to the MPUAs who have helped lots of guys and myself on here.

I wish I had discovered this community a long time ago but as the old saying goes " It Is better late than never".

My life has improved in so many ways. I am still in the process of becoming a better version of myself. I must however say that pick up is not for lazy people.

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"Adapt what is useful, reject what is useless, and add what is specifically your own." - Bruce Lee

I would say the opposite. Nothing can motivate a lazy ass more than pickup. Your dick has more power than you think.

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Absolutely nothing motivates a lazy ass. That's why he's lazy. He would stay in bed or on couch the whole day, play video games and watch movies than dress up, go out, approach tons of girls, get rejected many times and finally get laid. The lazy guy would seek an easy way out.

What's the easy way out for the lazy guy? He'd watch porn, fap and sleep rather than putting in the work to satisfy that dick power.

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"Adapt what is useful, reject what is useless, and add what is specifically your own." - Bruce Lee

Sounds correct but it's not. Everybody can be motivated to take action. No matter how lazy. I was once the guy you described.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

+1.

Not all the lazy guys will get motivated, but some of them definitely will, the guys who are just looking for a breakthrough in their life. The guy who's already energetic
Will (most probably) already be getting girls or at least living a good lifestyle. See the "naturals" around yourself. I really doubt they give a shit about Game theory or even know what "inner game" is. These are the guys who are not lazy, which is only a small percentage unfortunately.

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Don't get confused by my username. I am not Bald.

I agree

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"Adapt what is useful, reject what is useless, and add what is specifically your own." - Bruce Lee