I end up going out and intend on approaching even just one girl but i either use the fact i am having fun with my big friend group out, and don't bother. Or i will pull a girl but because they approach me.


BUT NOT TONIGHT! I went out to wingman for a friend and something just happened i went directly up to a girl and was like 'You are very attractive' that went well spoke a little made my reason and left. Done it a few more times then before i know it i didn't care and all the fit girls in the club had been approached and were coming up to me throughout the night.

I prob could have got a few numbers but i was just focusing on my approach. I feel the thing holding me back is just the approach anxiety I'm not that bad at talking to girls and do get approached most nights but I just want to have the confidence to go upto a girl and choose. So i will go out tonight again and work at it once more.

It isn't the biggest progress step but I am happy because i feel once i am over this hurdle of approaching i will do fine at this, and i just wanted to let you all know because I have read a lot of information on here and helped me get into a nice new confident mind set not only in PU but everything!

Goof stuff, keep at it.

Feels like a chore at 1st but then you start to enjoy it. Kinda like going to the gym, so make sure you keep the ball rolling.

Girls are still approaching you evidently, so I am guessing you have decent fundamentals so I can imagine some success for you pretty soon.

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