I love boxing and going gym, I haven't been gym as much as I've liked to and lists bit of my physique (although never being huge or anything like that) I wondered if anyone had any tips on being more alpha so people don't try to test you as much. Often get female friends say I'm gay jokingly etc and stuff like that (bit annoying)

Wondered if there was any good articles on this, also whether putting more size on would help.

Final side note: when some of my female friends have a guy their interested, they scared to text them, want to know everything they're doing, make the extra effort to tidy they're place before a guy comes over. How do I get that sort of investment. I've had things similar from girls that like but ends up fading quickly.

There's no such thing as "alpha".

Now there are masculine and feminine 'energies' possessed innately by every human being on this planet. The terms themselves don't really matter as they'll have some variance cross-culturally. That said (and speaking from a purely Western, eurocentric perspective) masculine energy embodies self-assuredness, resourcefulness, decisiveness etc; it is a grounding energy of sorts - typically what women in this part of the world find security in for obvious reasons.

Feminine energy can be described as creative, more abstract, presence - existing moment-to-moment such as emotion-focused (this is how to a lot of guys women seem unstable or a little "crazy"). These descriptions aren't exhaustive nor are they anything I'd come-up with.

Abandon the notion of alpha, and replace it with 'abundance'. Yes, language does matter and affects both thinking and behavior so be mindful of the language you're using especially with yourself.

Ask yourself what abundance looks like, and u'll be on the right track.

Indifference, achievement, accomplishment. That's all you should worry about, really.

Set some goals, and fucking smash them. Don't even worry if you "fail" because you can have another shot.

Masculinity grows through accomplishment and breaking barriers. Watch how "alpha" you can be when you're pushing your limits in multiple areas of your life.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

In your particular situation you need to impose your will with absolutely no regard of others opinion or feelings,(respectably) you dont have to get into a fist fight or get nasty, but never back down.

You must always stand up for yourself.

As far as women, it's easy dude, to instantly become more "Alpha" to women, you must impose your desire to fuck them. Be sexual, flirty.

Here is an example of what you could reply to the women that suggested you were gay:

"Well women do say all the hot men are gay, but in this case its not true, and if you'd like to follow me to the next room, i'd be more then happy to show you. That goes for all of you sexy bitches. (haha) but not you"( point to the one you are most attracted to)"no thanks"

"Funny you should say that, I did think about it once when i realized that all women are crazy(fucked) but then i just remember how much i love hearing a woman moan and scream of pleasure" (Big smile)

"If I was gay their is no way i'd be thinking the things i am thinking about some of you right now"

My point here is simple, being sexual and showing your metaphoric dick to women is an alpha trait.


As far as the women doing all that shit for a date, that's women dude, once they are into a guy, all that shit is natural to them. As far as female investment, the vast majority only have 2 gears.

1. Into you
2. not into you

Focus more on being attractive to them, the rest will follow.

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.