Evening Gents,

Bit of an elaborate story but hoping for some opinions please.

So I've got a group of friends I hang with frequently and recently one of my friends has brought two of her best friends into the group. One of the girls in particular I hit it off with from the start, only issue being she has a long term boyfriend. So I backed off because that's not my style. However one night recently we all got pretty drunk and went back to my friends. This girl was all over me, she dragged me to the bedroom to 'talk' to me, she said words to the effect of 'you understand me because you've been in a long term relationship' and basically 'I think I like you' blah blah blah. We had a little kiss and that was that. We've hung out as a group since then and nobody knows what happened between us etc but we've not spoken about it either, we're not awkward at all and she's still giving me the right signals, but she has dropped a few comments about not remembering much which I think is her way of protecting herself.

In short I have the upmost respect for discretion and I don't want to start disturbing things between her and her boyfriend as they have long term commitments i.e a mortgage! But I can't help and wonder what her thoughts are, maybe to satisfy my own curiosity! My thoughts are I think I should wait till we're out drinking again and we have a moment between us and I ask her then! Not even sure what to say!?

Like I said I can take it or leave it with her but I do actually want to chat with her. Thoughts on my situation and possibly what to say would be great please people!

Totti.

Here's my question to you. What do you want from this girl? It doesn't make sense to bring anything up if you're not going to pursue anything because of her long term boyfriend.

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Do what you've been doing so far, it's clearly working.
I think you solved your own dilemma there...

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Yeah I see both your points. To be honest I don't even know what I want from her. Obviously I want to fuck her but that's not my style ruining relationships.

Like I said I really want to satisfy my own curiosity, I want to know how she feels about the whole situation. I know it really does sound like an AFC thing to say but I can't help and wonder!

With all due respect...bullshit.

You want to fuck this girl, but you want it to be her that takes the steps to do it. You kissed her knowing she had a boyfriend and there was no problem. Guys that don't want to fuck a girl don't care about what's going on in her head when it comes to her being attracted to him.

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Haha yeah you make a fair and valid point, guess I've just got to accept that for myself.

I'm going to play it by ear.

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