In one of my more recent posts I talked about how I was dating 5 girls at once. Well, a lot has happened since then. It turns out that the one I liked the most, a really really cool HB 9, has dug me also, and we've been spending a LOT of time together. So much time in fact that I've pretty much cut off the other girls I was seeing. This HB and I are so compatible its almost unreal. Anyways, thats the reason I haven't posted anything recently. Finding an HB I can feel good about dating exclusively has always been my personal ultimate goal of being a PUA, so I'm pretty happy about the situation I'm in. The other girls were just fun sidetracks along the way. Who knows where this is going, but if I've got anything relevant to say or contribute I'll be happy to post. Peace.

Great news, hopefully it works out for you

Good stuff man, glad to see you're accomplishing your goals. Just remember, just because you land a girl, the game isn't over, you need to continue to keep her attraction, stay comfortable with you and make sure you're giving her amazing sex that she won't find anywhere else.

Even if you've got a steady girlfriend, we'll always be here for you to bounce stuff off of. Being a master PUA should go far beyond the initial pickup.

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Glad for you man

Pretty much the same thing just happened for me also. Now I'm trying to put the same energy that I've put into pickup into keeping things creative and exciting with Ms. HoneyBunny. There are tons of ideas on this forum that I've found helpful to facilitate romance and intrigue. It's going to get a lot harder to keep coming up with new ideas, but that's part of the fun.

Here's an idea I came up with the other day, and I'm going to put it into action this week. Do you remember those square shaped origami "fortune teller" toys where you use your thumbs and index fingers to count letters and numbers that the player picks which reveal a fortune inside? I'm going to make a bedroom version, and hopefully get to use it on her birthday this week. I discussed the idea of the toy in the gym with my buddy, and a girl overheard what I was saying and started laughing... she said she'd love for a guy to do something like that with her, so I have good reason to think it will go over well.

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That's awesome man, I have a feeling it will go over quite well! The question, is what will you be putting on the different flaps? I can't remember if it's 4, 6, or 8 different answers?

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You can do either 4 or 8 different answers. Here's what I've come up with so far:

"Close your eyes and count to 10"
"Lie down for a BACK MASSAGE!"
"Close your eyes to get a foot massage."
"Point where you are most ticklish."

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Appreciate the support, guys. I'll let you know how things are going, and so far its been one of those situations where every date has involved mutual-value-escalation. We're so similar and feed off each other so much that I haven't even really needed to consciously game her. Everything has just come naturally. Obviously, though, the initial pick up was touch and go, involving tons of phone game and well executed dates. I may not have been able to handle this girl a few years ago. But now, she's just my speed, and along with personal growth and maturity I have this forum to thank.

I take it you haven't had sex yet? If so, I would go a little more riske.

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~ Rye

LOL . . . we already have those . . . but he could be another.

More riske it is then

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Oh, LTR's are no problem. I'm actually much more comfortable being in them then sarging. I can typically just "relax" when it comes to having an LTR because I can just act naturally.

congrats bro. im happy for you. good luck

Sex with her is what I meant by the way. Doesn't matter if both of you have had sex, just as long as you have had sex together. If you have, then yeah, make it sexual favors and maybe toss one tamer massage one and a joke one that she would want a redo for, just for kicks.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Well, some of the advice actually DOES apply to LTR's as well. How do you mean, writing extensively? I mean, as in a book? Or, just a long thread? Or what man?

I personally don't see too many questions about how to maintain LTR's, since most guys are looking for how to pick up a one-itis.

Unless I'm just skipping over those threads w/o realizing it.

I mean, I've been married for years, you know, lol, so I can talk about maintaining an LTR, along with sarging, and having MLTR's. And, this is my 3rd marriage too, so I have that perspective as well, lol.