I'm 26 and have been seeing this 20 year old college junior I met doing daygame on campus one day. We had a quick 1.5 hour lunch for first date followed by a second date 2 weeks later (this past sunday) that went great (we went for a walk over tea + mini golf) that ended in a passionate kiss.

I want to try to go for the bang on the third date, but I want to do it in a socially calibrated way. First, keep in mind that she probably has me on the bf track (she told her family about me already). I was thinking about just straight inviting her over to make dinner + watch a movie, but I'm not sure if this will be received well. I didn't get a chance to probe her views on sex yet. Any advice on what to do from here?

PS: Is it beta to wish her a happy thanksgiving?

Lol you're already doomed man. She's already got you covered in pussy whip. If you make a move now, you're going to get the "Omg! What are you doing?!" response. You need to move faster. Show your intentions and set the expectation.

Stop being so soft.

Is it beta to say Happy Thanksgiving?

What? lol

Bro, its third date man, if you don't think asking a girl over to your house isn't basic protocol you have to get out there and approach more. Ask her man. Whats she going to say? She'll feel delighted that you're actually considering sleeping with her. Not holding her hands and walking through the park all day.

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The last line of your post made me laugh.

Anyway, girls on average to about 3 days to sleep with a guy (unless it's an obvious one night stand situation where nothing more will come of it, then they either reject you or fuck you...)

you should've made moves for sex and more than a kiss, but it's not over yet I suppose. It could be soon if you don't get your shit together, but it's not yet.

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Lmao

Nothing wrong with the happy Thanksgiving.

And don't worry about asking her to hang at yours, just do it and asses afterwards.
You're not asking her to fuck you in a public restroom lol.

You got this

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word! you got this homie!!
keep up with your flow, you already got hand holding (kino), you got a kiss (escalated kino level b), next is asking her to come over so you can put some seduction on her and go for kino level c, boobs, pussy, ass, whatever!!!

ask her over for dinner and a movie..if you can cook, even better. most women love a man that can cook for them. all she can do is say no and create an excuse. for that you say ok then another day, and suggest something else.

Is ask her to make dinner together rather than watch a movie. Also don't say a specific date, ask her when she's free.

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