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 Post subject: Bartender Kino
PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2015 1:21 pm 
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Going to try number closing a bartender tonight (which I should have done last week) and it got me thinking. I've heard it said around here that "if you're not doing kino you're not seducing." So... how do you kino a bartender when there's an entire bar in between you?

Or do you just not, and it's a matter of generating enough interest verbally for her to join you on the other side?


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 Post subject: Re: Bartender Kino
PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2015 2:43 pm 
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Verbal and non verbal interest.

Kino/escalate in the date. Kino is only useful if you can get her to a bedroom. In this case, she has to finish her shift so it's kinda irrelevant and pointless

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Verbal and non verbal interest.

Kino/escalate on the date. Kino is only useful if you can get her to a bedroom

In this case, she has to finish her shift so it's kinda irrelevant and pointless to touch her elbow over the bar

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You can pick up women without kinoing, but it damn sure helps the connection. The more mediums you connect with a woman on the more likely you'll pop up in her mind from time to time.

You could always shake her hand, but touch her with your words if thats all you have.

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 Post subject: Re: Bartender Kino
PostPosted: Tue Dec 01, 2015 12:07 am 
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You can pick up women without kinoing, but it damn sure helps the connection. The more mediums you connect with a woman on the more likely you'll pop up in her mind from time to time.

You could always shake her hand, but touch her with your words if thats all you have.
Hmm... handshake seems awkward since I didn't do that the first two times we talked. That said, sounds like I should start doing that when I first meet bartenders just in case. :)


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 Post subject: Re: Bartender Kino
PostPosted: Tue Dec 01, 2015 12:14 am 
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Eyes and words bro. the way you talk and look at her should tell her enough.
Keep the tension in there and persist with the number.

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 Post subject: Re: Bartender Kino
PostPosted: Tue Dec 01, 2015 3:30 am 
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i agree with everyone else..use your seductive eyes and smile! you can't talk much in loud bars and can't hold a convo because she is working and got other patrons to serve. kino is to build comfort and escalate, you can introduce it as soon as you guys are out of the venue.

as for introducing kino, easiest way is hand shake, hug or kiss on the check, when you first meet


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