hello everyone,

ok i bought a tablet pc (android) downloaded tinder and started liking the profiles that came up.
i got 3 matches which one turned out to be a scammer (offering a hook up then asking me to sign up to a website), the other 2 disappeared after my first message (i only said "hello, how you doing x").

now i am being told i have ran out of likes.

is there anyway i can can get more likes for free?? because i do not feel inclined to pay for tinder plus (i am over 28) and i only got 3 matches which is not good enough.

regards!

Eddie.

3 matches only reflects your lack of effort on your profile. You can either obtain awesome pics which means less swipes and more matches.

Here your old thread: general-questions/topic181410.html If your tinder profile is anything like this profile then I can imagine you don't get many dates let alone matches

Or

You can use average pics, pay Tinder $10 a month (Come on, $10 a month to get lot's dates from fuckable women???) and put in the volume. When I travel I will pay for it and go nuts with it

Or

What I do, I don't pay, but I have awesome pics but I zero in on the type of girls that i usually hook up. So yes, I will swipe no to some of the mega hotties because there is no point in wasting swipes with those girls. I am pretty happy with 1/2 matches per wave of swipes. Some days I don't get any matches. No biggy i'm a busy guy.


Mr Fox - All your threads revolve around online dating sticking point. It seems that you're totally neglecting the field. Handle this part 1st and then online dating becomes a breeze after

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i suppose it always is my fault.

i do go out but bars and clubs are always disappointing because everyone looks like they are under the influence.

so what is special about paying for tinder plus??

- Unlimited swipes. This gives you a edge since most guys are cheapskates.
- GPS locator
- rewards in the algorithm

I don't know why I'm tell you, just google this or go on the tinder blog
Derp, it's a bar??? It's also an excuse on your behalf, You ever heard of approaching girls in the daytime or do you have abother lame excuse?

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ok. thank you. never tried daytime pick up because i am always working (and thats not an excuse).

at the rate i am going all my money will one day go to the government.

just had an email saying i have more likes available now on tinder and i have not spent anything.

this is my profile picture. what do you think?

You work every single day?

What time do you finish work and what time do you go to bed?

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Noooooo.....

Dragula can give better advice on your pictures but this one is just terrible imo

I only log in to Tinder as a hobby and don't actually use it to meet women so far LOOL.

What i have found is that every day there is a string of a few matches in a row and that's all you need to tap on and usually it happens after the first few pics are presented to you.

I only log in once per day max. But even if i go several days without logging on the same thing applies.

yes i own several businesses and work most days.

my social life is virtually non existant. thats why i try online dating but get nowhere.

not sure what else to do.

cheers guys!

I have no doubt if you landed a hot date this week, you would suddenly find all the time in the world for it?

So not only you don't get matches or dates, You don't have free time, do you? So why are you here chasing girls then?

Seems like you should be focusing on to get some employees to free you from your business...but the real answer is, We know you can find the time for girls since you seem to have the time for running, dates and posting on forums.

Time to be honest with yourself. Because you're just wasting more time with your current online dating ethos. Stop neglecting the field. I have said this several times. Master the field and then online becomes like conveyor belt of pussy

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Work > Sex I guess.

Yes OP hit the actual field.

what dates?? i never even get a reply. which is really daft because i am better for knowing.

so if i am neglecting the field, where is the field?

You mentioned that you're too busy with business to go out and pick up girls IN THE FIELD (bars/shopping malls, face to face stuff)

Then I said if you landed a date with the girl of your dreams that you will suddenly find all the time in the world for it. That's humans for you.

Anyway, my advice has always been to you to master the field 1st and foremost and then online game becomes easy. You're doing it backwards. Do you why I know you're not getting dates or getting laid? Because the way you carry yourself in your POF profile.

If you have earned field time you will not be using those pics. I will level with you, to me you look like skeletor and I wouldn't want to meet you in a dark alley at night, if I feel this way then I'm pretty sure girls will feel it more so.

Sorry for being harsh, but I'm actually telling you how to get laid. Get in the field and you need to make that big transition and evolve like a mother fucking Pokemon. You don't have the 1000 yard stare from what I can see.

Right now, you're playing video games playing war and pretending to be soldier. My advice is to stop playing the video game and get your ass in the trenches and let the field time, comfort zones turn you into an attractive male. The field gives you direct feedback as opposed to girls completely skipping your profile. You will tend to auto correct due to this face to face feedback.

Cliff points:
• go to bars/shopping malls and approach girls raw.
• then consider online game when you've evolved.

= get laid

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well you never know whats round the corner....

actually i went to some bars last night, but going out on your own is not always enjoyable when everyone sticks to their own little groups. i did speak to one guy who i knew from running though.

i also went to a gay bar and one guy asked "whats a good looking guy like you doing sat on your own. wheres all your women??" i did not stay there much longer as i thought he was trying to pick me up!!

so that was my night out. sounds crap doesn't it.

Yes it does. Keep at it and talk to girls this time. Find some pick up guys in your local area too. Google is your friend and so is this forum

You see? Get a person out of their bubble and then you will see transpire the cracks to their situation. Your situation is otherwise known as, stage one of pick up. Approach anxiety. We all have to break this sticking point.

You're welcome by the way.

You have a lot of work to do if you REALLY want to meet girls, have sex with them and stuff.

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