Wrong end of the stick bro

I'm talking about J Daniels. But glad you're doing well with the love life

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Fuck that. Lol.

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Yes, absolutely. Moving out should ideally at least be in his site by now. It's definitely a problem at his age if he's not at least working on a plan or something to get his own place, but it's definitely no excuse to not get laid... that's all I was getting at. I can't claim that he can get laid "just as much" though, because I haven't tried both situations, and I don't know him.
Well no, if I was a millionaire I wouldn't need to split the bills - I'd just buy a place instantly. I'm not trying to imply that it's any kind of challenge or anything to be proud of. I'm just saying I'm neither proud nor ashamed of it.

The general point that I was trying to make is: Living at home isn't an excuse for not getting laid. That's like when people moan about how "money goes to the rich" - yes they have a point, but a lot of those people were once poor... same principle can be applied to women or any other area of life. You could still live a good life if you're poor, but that's no reason to not try to get rich.

Struggling to figure out the best way to word it, so that'll do.

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Okay, cool. We understand each other now.

You missed my last question though

I hate doing laundry though, I will let you have that

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I do it for a lot of reasons.

I'm happy to admit that one of the main ones is comfort. I could go and do what the other guy did and live in the park etc until I find a job and work hard and go through the ranks... but I'd just prefer to make up for lost time and go through college first

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Can't believe this thread is actually real. It's always more financially feasible to live with your parents. Heck, its better if you don't move out ever and just keep the family house as your own. But it's about being a man. Quit being babies, get a shitty job, get a shitty place, but move out. There are immigrants who come with nothing, they pay their dues and they get the place they want. They work hard, save up but they handle THEIR shit. Go to school and get a job/jobs. If you have time to date, you have time to work. I've never come across someone who lived at home for any reason other than because it was easy and they didn't want to be independent. Life is hard. Some days you aint gonna eat. You may have to bust your ass studying, living in a shit apartment and waiting tables to even survive. But that's life. Hiding from the realities of life in the safety of your parents house just keeps you from facing the real world.

When I grew up, 18 was the age you'd expected to be on your own. Actually from 16-17 if you got a job at that age. It was hard and stressful but you became an adult. I had no idea 21 year olds, 27 yr olds and 32 year olds would even be ok with living at their parents. Scratch that, girls can get away with that. But MEN?! If your finances are shit, live shitty. Don't live at mom and dad's nicer place to live better than you deserve to.

Soon as I finished school, my Dad started to charge me rent. I reacted quite bad to it considering all my friends were not getting charged rent and I was forced into getting a dead end job.

Fast forward ten years later, some of those friends are still living with folks and just have zero hustle in them. (With anything other than video games)

If I ever have a kid, he/she is being charged rent due to life lessons.

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Good....My dad always told me that I had to learn to be able to live on my own because if any day he died I won't just be clueless. Women are emotional. A mom will let you live with her for life. I have never run across someone with a manly dad who was ok with a grown man living in their house past a certain age. For the OP and all the guys whose mom is ok with that, ask yourself whether your mom is able to teach you how to be a man. She can't. So when she is saying keep living here, its keeping you as a CHILD, not making you a man. If I have a kid, he's out at 18. If he makes $10 an hour, he should live the lifestyle and have the accommodations as someone who makes $10 an hour. Youre not gonna make $10 an hr and live in a $500,000 house past 18.

Living with your parents is not attractive regardless if you pay rent or not. When it comes to seduction, your game is handicapped. Not living with your parents isn't an amazing feat. Millions of people do it.

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Judging by the last couple of comments, I think people are reading my first comment wrong still. There's literally nothing wrong with me living at home, and I'm glad that I do live at home - I don't WANT to move out yet. It doesn't make a guy more masculine because he slept on the streets for 2 weeks. Yes it may have taught him lessons, but I'm busy with my education and I'm trying to get some money together and do it the easier way. Your comfort zone isn't always a bad place to be.

Also I agree that moving out is nothing spectacular. It'd be like braggnig about having a kid...

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The last comments are directed at the OP...To someone who ISN'T getting laid and is depressed about it

He is also currently moaning that he isn't get laid BECAUSE he is living at home despite money not being an issue (until he is suggested to move out of course)
It isn't bragging at all bro, it is simply about being independent and being the king of your castle. Don't knock it till you try it though.

You know it, we know it that the OP is just making excuses. This really isn't about you and you don't need to keep justifying your situation. It is a step you eventually take one day but you'e making thread about you when it isn't the case. I am pretty sure you're the type of guy to move out if it was depressing you.

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I get that. I just don't think the problem is that he has nowhere to take girls. The problem in my opinion is fear or laziness (both have been problems for me in the past - and it's amazing to have a little excuse to use, and talk about how you "would if you could")

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have you never heard of a hotel???

sheesh just get a room! ive f-closed a girl from meeting her at 5pm, hooking up, i was an hour+ away from my home so i straight up told her, "my house is very far away but i got a hotel this weekend close by"....sneak away, get on your smartphone, find the closest hotel, prebook with credit card...DONE DEAL.


you need to stop making excuses.

32 and still living with mom? come on man theres a million ways to make money out there go out and get it.

if you realllly are still living at home with moms, there is a way to reframe things to not look as pathetic and AFC.

for example, my friend lives at home because his mom has cancer and hes pretty much her caretaker. that doesnt stop him from getting laid at all, he has friends over to the house all the time because he doesnt act like "i live with my mom" more like "this is my house and my mom is here because i love her and take care of her"


so maybe just tell your mom to put on some baby powder, look sickly, and stay in her fucking room when you have a girl over lol..

**facepalm**

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