She was taking a look at the room in the house I was leaving, my roommate was looking for a new tenant. I answered the door and we talked and I think there was something there before my roommate came down to show her the room. My roommate gave me her friends number (she was texting my roommate through her male friends number).

I texted her (to her guy friends number) that she left an impression on me and I'd like to take her out sometime.

She got back to me two weeks later like this:

Hi there. I don't know if you remember me but I'm Ariana...I didn't have a phone yet and so you texted my friend and he didn't tell me about it until now...I felt the need to write to you, as I'm never one to leave someone hanging. I actually have a boyfriend. But if I didn't then I would have certainly taken you up on that!

Me:Haha thanks for texting. Unfortunate for me you've got a boyfriend already. He's a lucky guy. Appreciate you txting me though.

Me (next day): Arianna just wanted to say that you left an impression on me that doesn't happen often at all. I don't know why that is, but selfishly wanted to leave you w that on the chance it could make someone's day a little better.

Her:You selfishly wanted to make someone's day a little better? That doesn't sound right:)

Now I text her a cute message every couple days or so and she always reply's at some point in the day.

Any advise with this texting thing? Not sure if anyone knows how to handle this kind of situation but any suggestion would be appreciated.

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I read your post. It's great and refreshingly truthful, I can tell you actually have had a relatively large amount of successes in the field. But there is nothing on the specific scenario I've referred to, any specific suggestions would be much appreciated.

Is the investment going to be worth the reward? I don't think so.

You could be texting little cute messages to some girl who has the emotional availability and time to spend with you. However, this girl is of course a challenge and the fact that she's taken makes her that much more attractive so just leaving it as is, isn't as easy as you might hope.

Now, while she is responding and leaving the door open for you to manipulate the situation to your benefit, i don't see it being worth the effort. If you were to succeed at getting her out and away from her situation you would become well aware of this. Her allure is partially due to her lack of accessibility. But if you must try anyway, I would suggest you disappear for about a week and see if she opens you on a good day. The door of her initiating has to be opened, and now would be the time for you to pull back just a bit and let that happen; before you become the guy chasing the girl with the boyfriend.

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