Hi all,

I've been doing direct day game on and off for a while now. After I open and say something along the lines of that I find the girl cute, I generally get a positive response. However, aside from asking the boring interview style questions such as what do you do and where are you from (which can be ok but only when the conversation is already going well), I'm not sure exactly what to say so it becomes a decent chatty and flirty conversation.

I have tried making assumptions about what they do or wear etc but when pretty much everyone is a professional and nothing stands out etc (say if I do day game after work), there is not really that much to say here.

Any ideas? Good topics to bring up or good lines to say?

Begin directly but learn to have a conversation. That's the only skill you need. She will know where you stand with her and a regular conversation will make her find you interesting.

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Problem is, you feel you're asking boring questions because you are a boring guy.

Become less boring.

I can give you the best line in the world, but it won't work without the sauce.

Find your sauce, that's what women are drawn to.

Do whatever it is you have to do to make yourself exciting.

Ask yourself this

If you met yourself, would you like yourself?

If not, get to work.

Step out of the mundane and into the extraodinary.

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Thanks for your answer. I particularly like the line above.

Whats the most approaches you do in a 30 minute time span?

I find that the guys that struggle with what to say within conversation are usually the guys who do one approach every 30 minutes. They work themselves up to an approach, do it, its not the best, and then they do the same thing all over again. This prevents them from ever getting hot. Imagine trying to heat up left overs in the microwave by putting it in the microwave for 30 seconds every 10 mins for an hour, instead of for 3 straight minutes. Both are the same time, but in one situation the food will never get hot.

Try approaching 5 women in the same 15 minutes. If you don't know what to say, move on to the next one until the idea of approaching feels effortless. Then your mind will be centered around what to do after you kiss this, because approaching won't require thought energy to get done.

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Talk about how you ate or hate corn on the cob.

Dude it doesn't fucking matter what you say, it's in how you say it and your vibe period.

You need to be a very good listener after you ask an initial question so that you don't need to "interview her". The PUA's call it threading/multiple threading. You need to throw in some DHV's as well to raise up your value so that she doesn't see you as a street urchin.

Then you need to figure out how to sprinkle something humorous into the convo which will require more listening. But at the end of the day you never know what your gonna get like Forest Gump says. Life is like a box of chocolates. One girl might be raging on PMS, one just broke up with her boyfriend or sex pal stopped texting her and she's mad at the world, one might be looking for revenge sex, one might be lonely, validation, attention, etc etc etc. That's why I always say it's a numbers game regardless of your PUA skills.

Keep showing more and more interest.

Ask her what her name is... but genuinely be interested.

Ask her where she's from... but genuinely be interested.

Ask her what she does... but genuinely be interested.

You say you're being "direct" but obviously your intentions don't show through.