Vulnerability (putting your balls on the table for others to smash) is extremely seductive. With other words, expressing your feelings, either in words or in actions, in a non needy way so that you can be rejected (that's the vulnerability) is seductive. Note that doing the opposite (hiding your feelings) is weak and needy. Saying "I dig your shit" is a rather half assed attempt to express your feelings. It's better than nothing, but you can do better than that.

By expressing your feelings you will polarize girls and force them to decide whether they like you back. Every rejection you'll get is a time saver (no need to waste more time on her) and something that you should appreciate.

I disagree. Talking about feelings are for when the girl is saying "I love you" on a regular basis. And even then, use sparingly.

Go ahead and tell a girl you've had a crush on her for a year shortly after you meet her and let me know how it goes.

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It's the frequency that will make or break you, not just with feminine women, but with people in general. If you're all about feelings 99.99% of the time, then you have serious mental issues.

Masculine men are expected to be emotionally, physically, and mentally strong and those are what attract feminine women to them--STRENGTH. If you show, express, or tell your feelings to women on RARE, special occasions, say, 2% of the time, then it's all good. Most women will see you as a strong man with an attractive vulnerability.

If you're 99.99% about emotions, you're not only a repulsive, weak man. You're a disgrace to the human race.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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Needy is needy.

If you're quiet about your emotions because you're afraid of losing her, YOU'RE NEEDY ANYWAY. Your subcommunications are going to be needy, she's gonna figure out that you're afraid to lose her from your other actions. Now, you can tell a girl you like her, you can tell her you're happy with her, if it's coming from a place of NOT BEING AFRAID TO LOSE HER (ie NOT NEEDY). That's the difference. If you're afraid to lose her, you're needy. Doesn't matter if you say you like her or not.

When I tell a girl emotional things, it's always from the frame of I'm just being honest, if you don't like this, I dont care because I'm not afraid to lose you. Being with you is great, but I'm not going to do something I don't want to do (ie not say something I feel) out of fear of losing you. You can go. I value myself over you. Me telling you I like you, isn't to make you like me, it's because I want to say it. My only goal is to be honest. And if you don't like me for that, then great, I can find someone on the same page.

So your mindset is what matters imo. If you need her to stay, doesn't matter what you say. A girl doesn't just lose attraction for you over you telling her you like her. If she does, its because you were needy in a million other ways.