Went out to the local college campus today, and got 7 numbers in about 4 hours. There's one particularly hot 18 year old freshmen coed who I had a short text exchange with, which after 2-3 messages culminated in me asking her out for coffee.

The last part of it went like this:

HER: "Just don't catch me on a bad day " (we were talking about whether she was as nice as she seems)

ME: "I guess I'll have to take a risk then, let's meet for coffee tomorrow"

HER (2 hours later): "Sorry I was hiking!"

She didn't actually respond to my offer (when I took her # I told her I was going to ask her out for coffee by the way). My thought process here is to follow up again tomorrow morning with something like "gotta work those glutes" just to acknowledge what she said, then new text with "so how does 3pm sound for coffee?" Does that come across as too needy or uncalibrated?

Stop blind guessing when she is free

Ask her:

"Let's grab a drink this week, which day is good for you?"

If she makes excuses, she isn't interested, if she likes you, she will provide a date

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First things first man.. I find the point of real life day and night game at this point to only be necessary if you're going to spend energy building the firmest connection possible while you have the girl in front of you. If you're going to do the get in and get out numbers game you mine as well just stick to online. Its expends less energy, its faster, and will yield better results when it comes to playing the numbers game.

Are you going for instant dates? Kiss and/or full closes during the approach?

I tell you like I told someone else today, when a girl rejects or ignores you attempt to hang out she's simply saying that enough comfort hasn't been built up yet. She's attracts hence the reason she gave you her number and hence the reason she responded, but she's just not quite ready to hang out yet. Had you asked her on a instant date while you met her she would of likely responded to the high of the moment and went with it.

If you're trying to hammer a nail through a piece of wood and it bends, do you continue to hammer it, or pull the nail out, straight it (if you can) and try again?

Thats what you do here. Don't double push to hang out back to back, just resume conversation and present the idea at a later time. It could be 20 mins or 2 days. Ask when the temperatures high.

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Thank you eddie fews, truly words of wisdom. Alas, I already made a bone headed mistake here.

My last reply to her was:

"No problem, gotta work those glutes *running man emoji*"

Then, "just let me know which day is good for you"

I can only kick myself at this point, seems so obvious now: I hadn't built enough comfort, better to back off and re-engage the subject at a later date. But I was so horny that I sent the uncalibrated text this morning. She hasn't replied yet, and I don't expect her to.

Best I can do now is re-engage later in the week like I would have if I hadn't sent that last text, but I fear I may have already come across as an over eager chode.

EDIT: I-date wasn't an option. I got her number as she was going to class.