Got this girl over to my apt. Last night off POF after 10 mins. Convo. She knew I was leaVing town in 2 days. Walked straight into my bedroom. Went to make out with her to start escalating but she kept refusing. She ended up bailing shortly thereafter. Really nothing I could do. Obviously there was some ASD shit going on and she most likely freaked but I have a couple of questions:

1. Do you ever not kiss and just go straight for it because "kissing" could be coined as interested in something more than just sex?
2. If that's the case, how the fuck do you avoid ASD that way?
3. Do you ever kiss your fuck buddies? I have before but led them on with relationship hopes, but this case was different.

If she came over after 10 minutes and then proceeded to parade right into your bedroom, I seriously doubt an anti-slut defence had anything to do with it.

I think she got a whiff of something she didn't like... Could have been you, in person (no offense... maybe you don't look like your pics?) Maybe your apartment was gross? Did you smell?

If she bailed after 10 minutes on what appeared to be a sure thing, then she saw something she didn't like.

I think this could be more the issue...Girls can also get cold feet at the last second. I'm sure emotionally she wanted it at the time but then the logical stuff creeps in.

Getting a girl over within 10mins is good work. Maybe you should tell every girl that you're leaving to travel the next day so that they break their "rules"

Shit happens.

I had a couch msurfer see my room mate's cock ring and she left promptly with some excuse.

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Yeah my apartment has no furniture except the bedroom and I Have no tv. Probaby not helpful. Travelling worked against me.