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You're correct Rye - Of course she's going to be attracted to other men, but at some point you have to decide if she's the type that would stray or if she's loyal to you. If you feel that she's the type that would cheat, she's probably not worth your time. I understand that it's important to learn and have game though. I would just choose to not stay with a girl that feel the need to continuously game. Just my personal preference.
I don't think you're understanding what I'm saying exactly. What I'm saying, is that if you aren't keeping her highly attracted (not just kinda attracted), maintain a DEEP emotional connection and experience mind blowing sex together, then she is going to cheat. It is a near fact.
Many people will scoff at this and call it bullshit, but this is what evolutional biologists tell us, this is why psychologists tell us, this is what any pickup guru WILL tell you. It is becaue attraction isn't a choice, nor is the NEED to comfort and passion.
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A Passion for More by Susan Shapiro Barash, it is a book about 57 women that have affairs outside of their marriages and what drove them to it. According to David Shade's review of the book, almost every woman is obsessed with the man that gives her the most exciting sex. That doesn't mean it was always the person she was having the affair with though, sometimes it was the husband that she thought about and the person that she was having the affair with, was there to fill a lack of emotional bond that human beings crave.
I've been having an "emotional affair" with a girl for the past several years. She's been with other men the whole time, but I have things to offer that she can't get from them and just because we aren't having sex, doesn't mean I'm not highly entrenched. I've been the driving force behind at least one of her breakups and although the farthest we've ever gone sexually was some making out and a little webcam nudity, I probably know more about her than any man she's been with, because we share that deep emotional connection and I make her happier than any of them.
Why would I do this you ask? Why not drop her cause she's not having sex with me and giving me what I "want", cause I too crave that emotional bond and she's been able to give it to me better than anyone else has and she knows ME better than any other woman does.
Affairs are often something done out of necessity, not out of choice. If you aren't giving a woman what she needs, then she will leave you, or go outside of the relationship for it. Sure, there are women to avoid because they are nymphomaniacs and can't remain faithful because they need to fuck everything with a cock, but we're not talking about them, we're talking about healthy, high value, high self-esteem women. A healthy high self-esteem woman will realise she is missing out on things in her life that she needs to be happy and will seek them out to BE happy. This is under your control by being the man that she desires, the man that can fulfill her needs.
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