Hey everyone,

So recently I was with a girl, lets say Bonnie, who was a friend of an ex, she came around and long story short we ended up getting together (Wasn't my intentions but Bonnie was beautiful so no complaints) - However it was under the effects of some drugs so we both don't know what happened exactly.

I thought it be important that my ex knows something happened because I thought it was only fair for her to know. However Bonnie wasn't happy that I had told my ex so she gave me the cold shoulder, hardly replying, ect.

Anyway, I was doing my exams at the time and under a lot of stress so I ended up flipping out at her (and a few others at that, exams suck.) I just apologised for becoming livid and then decided I wasn't going to talk to her anymore.

BUT, I decided I do want to go for this girl again but i'm not really sure where to start considering it's all pretty fucked SPAM. It's been about a week since we stopped talking.

Any advice gentlemen?

I think you need to freeze her out. There is obviously interest if she's mad at you mad is better than indifferent. You can't be mad at someone you dgaf about.

She will come around if you act like you've moved on, date other girls etc

Yeah, that's what I'm doing SPAM, but I don't think she will be messaging me. So i've got to re-initiate the conversation. Problem with all of this is, once she has decided she's no longer interested it's hard to get her back ...

I think i'll wait a few more days and then start conversation but then leave just as she starts getting interested. That's the idea.

For what it's worth I did a freeze-out and now she's eating out of my hands again ^.*

You sound a bit confused, lonely, and just unsure of what it is you actually want. Thats not a good recipe for a relationship or even a friendship. Not to mention, the chick still has connections with your ex. So this one would be best left alone.

However, the best way to handle it would be to pick up the phone and call the girl. She picks up you and you talk to her. She doesn't, and you move on with life. You don't text and you don't leave a message.

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I don't see why you felt any obligation to tell your ex. You owe her nothing and your not with her.

You should have embraced Bonnie and let the good times roll. It's also never a good idea to let a girl get you angry, but I do understand how stressful exams can be. Learn from it and do better the next time.

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