I have a really great game going on, picking up chicks hear and there. Things were going pretty smoothly until one of the girls i picked up didn't like "slow and sensual" foreplay style i used.

What the hell? Who doesn't like slow and sensual? This chick is telling me she doesn't like the way i do it even though, she admits, it felt really good.

After that i realized she wasn't my type and i ended it pretty quickly and went over to a cafe to scout another chick.

So my question is this: How the hell am I suppose to make foreplay rough?

I mean rough without getting too sexual. Unlike some guys, i actually do enjoy a little foreplay and i could lead the foreplay into sex anytime i want to.

So just tell me how to rough it up a bit so that i wont have to drop a fine girl like her next time.

Thanks for hearing me out and i hope i can get over this sticking point,

Thanks again,

-Peter

Doesn't have to be "rough", but firm, forceful. You don't have to gently caress her body, you can run your hands down her body in a hungry way that makes her feel like you're so passionate that you want to dig into her you want her so much.

When you kiss, it doesn't have to be slow and lingering, it can be short passionate kisses, or long ones, but forceful with passion as with your hands.

Instead of gently touching her pussy, you can touch it firmly and you dont have to take gentle strokes with your fingers, you can jam them in there if the mood calls for it.

I suggest you watch some porn. Hardcore porn. I can recommend some titles if you are too nice to have dabbled, because if what I'm saying isn't making sense, that's the only thing I can think.

Check out David Shade's work as well, he'll help you out a lot, he deals with sex and how sex affects relationships and how to give great sex and do amazing things with women. www.masterful-lover.com

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I wouldn't be too worried about altering your make-out style. Some girls like one thing and some girls like others. I would advice that you don't make out "like a girl". In other words - what she might be sensing that you were making out as a girl does.. being too soft and sensual when she wanted to feel like she was being "taken" by a man. A safe bet is to mix it up... be a little soft but aggressive and hard enough so she knows she's dealing with a man. Either way - stand your ground. Never be apologetic about your style.

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I'd suggest learning to read women and determine how you are going to bed them based upon that. Mixing it up is just gonna randomize your successes.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

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Thanks guys for your you responses. Honestly I'm not going to look for chicks that i can work with, instead i want to form myself so that i'm compatible with every chick i see.

I hope this isn't to much to ask but, what do you guys do?? and also other helpful tips can be nice.

-Peter