Hey guys. I know the teitle might seem dumb, but dumb ppl have dumb problems

So I've run into this problem and I usually screw up. Haven't figure how to reract. Sometimes I instictively do play it right, but it's usually by instict, so I don't actually know what I'm doing right!


So I'm a student but I sometimes work as a bartender and have high status in the area. I'm always cool, doing my stuff and having fun with friends. So I understand why this can seem appealing from girls. I often recieve looks and smiles from random girls, even approaches sometimes.

The problem is that whenever I react on that, it all gets fucked.

If I react cool like I don't care and don't pay too much attention on them, they keep trying to get my attention. But when I react like make smalltalk, it's fucked and they lose interest.

What is right gaming in this case? Is it just letting them keep trying to get my attention the whole night? And if that's it when and how do I make transition to actual seducing?

Looking forward for some tips guys.

Stay cooL!

I am assuming that you can't finish your barman shift as soon as some girl offers you sex. So I can imagine phone number's will be your best option since you have to finish work after EVERYBODY has gone home too drunk or getting fucked by their fuck buddies.

Personally I think being a barman is over-rated when it comes to seduction. I think approaching girls in the bars is way more beneficial even without the barman status but that's just me.

Anyway, If girls are attracted to you, you can pretty much write your number down on a napkin and tell her to wait for you after the shift. She understands you have to work and I really don't think you need to 'game' these girls since they are already are attracted to you. If she doesn't wait for you, she might send you a text anyway so you're still good to arrange a date.

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That's the issue, haven't reached that point yet to ask/give the phone number.

The moment I recognise their existance, I'm out!

Well. I'm sure you're capable of writing a phone number down...

So do you have an answer?

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This is not really different than anything else.

If you can't handle "approaching" you will not be able to handle being approached. The same social skill set is required to maintain conversation. The only difference is that you don't have to get over the AA.

Start approaching consistently, and learn the game and you won't have to worry about what to do after being approached. Be the aggressor.

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Yeap, probably a reveiw of tha game and a brainstorm of how to shape the rules for my case is the best I can do.

Thought I could skip that by asking for your tips guys, but obviously that's not tha case!
Actually no! Maybe you believe so, but I personally hardly believe that's ever gonna work more than once/million, at this or any other possible universe.


Anyway, thanx guys. Stay cool!

What type of advice are you expecting?

Such a defeatist speculating reply. You haven't even tried. I'm not even speculating. I'm speaking from experience of being on this earth/universe that you don't need to game girls that are attracted to you.

Do you think perhaps you should move away from pick up? Perhaps come back to it when haven't already gave up all hope in life.

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You answered your question in your own post

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Fair enough. Isn't that a never ending loop though? Have to show sth at some point, right?

Awesome question - you basically actually answered it yourself bro. It's like a cat: when that little pussy is chasing you she is CHASING YOU. When she catches it she get's board. The trick is to have your interaction with her be almost like you could leave at any moment. The best way to do this is with your body language. Don't turn straight to her unless she gives you a good reason to. Like she is earning your attention - it's your attention that she craves right there. Hold really deep eye contact as well when you do engage in her. Don't go for small talk, look down on her - instead tease her a little be playful then take it away with your BODY LANGUAGE. OK so body language is speaking to how directly your facing her. BOOM! Also don't give her your hip's till she really has earn't it.

You will do it - already your getting plenty of attention there ninja!

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Pretty good piece of advice, exactly what I was looking for.

Thanx there mate!